i got into a fight with my gf over bud..........

[petrushka]

Kid, your gf is 100% right. If you won't listen to her you will lose her eventually. Watch out for the repentant threads like "I traded my relationship for a drug"-threads.

 

[Don Gin and Ton]

Kid, your gf is 100% right. If you won't listen to her you will lose her eventually. Watch out for the repentant threads like "I traded my relationship for a drug"-threads.

spoken like a true lady ahahahaha jk

seriously tho dont let the limits of your passtime define you...

 

[petrushka]

^ I am a man and an experienced one too. And I know that a few weeks/months/years down the road this same kid will start another thread titled something like "I shouldoff rekognized the sines" or "How do I start a rehabp?"

 

[misshestermoffitt]

Why do girls these days go out and find the man of their dreams and spend the rest of their lives trying to change him?

The only thing I changed on my man was his wardrobe.

 

[petrushka]

Because they never do find the men of their dreams but either settle for a pothead hoping he'd grow out of it, or else they think he's cool until they understand that he is just sluggish.

 

[smokedogg63]

it's like walking by a window and seeing a dress you think you like, get it home and say i wish, i had picked the blue one. you get what you picked out, why can't you be happy. but you got to change it.

 

[petrushka]

Well, that is called "reality" and no amount of bud will change it.

 

[Don Gin and Ton]

^^^ so your basically saying he should bin his principles and change so the girl wont leave him? WTF

lifes a learning curve so it takes you a couple of go's to realise what's important in your life, no amount of soapbox preaching from the internet is going to influence this guy. the way he was brought up might. sounds like he's got his head screwed on right to me

 

[Cannabolic]

well honestly with her it was more of the fact that she thought that i was gunna be one of thoes ppl who do nothing but smoke weed BECAUSE i smoke weed. and i had to show her that theres diffrient types of stoners, and alot of ppl smoke weed but you would never guess cuz there not PDA about it.

 

[petrushka]

No. I am not saying what he should or should not be doing but rather predict what will happen if he does what he does. The choice is his. You seem to forget that cannabis is just a plant not a religion, idea or ideology.

 

[Don Gin and Ton]

folks should just learn to be less judgemental i guess. stereotyping is almost as bad as being racist. sounds like she just needed to let you know. hope it works out man

 

[Don Gin and Ton]

No. I am not saying what he should or should not be doing but rather predict what will happen if he does what he does. The choice is his. You seem to forget that cannabis is just a plant not a religion, idea or ideology.

lol dope is THE religion man jk

 

[Biggravy22]

Change is only good when it's accepted by the individual undertaking the change. If you don't want to stop smoking...by all means don't stop. Unless YOU're ready, and not because your girl told you to. I'll tell you this much. Love is not selfish, love is not controlling, and love most certainly is not unsure.

 

[Cannabolic]

^^^ so your basically saying he should bin his principles and change so the girl wont leave him? WTF

lifes a learning curve so it takes you a couple of go's to realise what's important in your life, no amount of soapbox preaching from the internet is going to influence this guy. the way he was brought up might. sounds like he's got his head screwed on right to me

so true. nobody should change their lifestyle to accommondate a girl who 5 yerrs from now is most likely not going to be with you. especially when theres nothing wrong with your lifestyle in the first place. secondly if the girl loved u she wouldnt change u, she'd embrace u.

 

[Biggravy22]

so true. nobody should change their lifestyle to accommondate a girl who 5 yerrs from now is most likely not going to be with you. especially when theres nothing wrong with your lifestyle in the first place. secondly if the girl loved u she wouldnt change u, she'd embrace u.

Exactly. There are tons of weed smoking productive girls out there. Go find one.

 

[petrushka]

so true. nobody should change their lifestyle to accommondate a girl who 5 yerrs from now is most likely not going to be with you. especially when theres nothing wrong with your lifestyle in the first place. secondly if the girl loved u she wouldnt change u, she'd embrace u.

True...
... unless:

1) You really want to be with that girl 5 yerrs from now and
2) The reason the girl won't be with you 5 yerrs from now is your lack of will power/addiction and/or stupidity/stubbornness.

 

[Biggravy22]

True...
... unless:

1) You really want to be with that girl 5 yerrs from now and
2) The reason the girl won't be with you 5 yerrs from now is your lack of will power/addiction and/or stupidity/stubbornness.

Ahem...I hate to intrude, but it doesn't seem like he has a lack of will power. It seems like he's doing exactly what he wants to do. It seems his problem is his lack of conformity.

 

[petrushka]

Is not all that glitters in gold and
Half the story has never been told

 

[Cannabolic]

True...
... unless:

1) You really want to be with that girl 5 yerrs from now and
2) The reason the girl won't be with you 5 yerrs from now is your lack of will power/addiction and/or stupidity/stubbornness.

1) i personally wouldnt wanna be with anyone who didnt love me for who I am
2)thats like if u had a gf that didnt like ur job because it was too dangerous and she either wanted u to quit ur job or loose her. in my opinion it has nothing to do with addiction, or will power. because im not addicted and its not like i dont have will power.... its just i dont want to stop smoking. and its not stupidity because i have very firm beliefs about my lifestyle and if she cant understand that then she is the stupid one. and its not as if i would be being stubborness because im not giving in not to spite her, but i dont believe marijuana is wrong and i like smoking, and she should understand. concidering that any woman who tried to make their boyfriend or husband quit would only be acting on her lack of information and the sterotype of bud smokers and not have a valid point, unless his smoking was interfereing with their economic status, or hurting anyone,which 9 times out of 10...........there not.

 

[petrushka]

Then I am wrong and you rule. Just make sure you are honest with yourself. I don't tell you watch out for the repentant for nothing. Their name is myriads.