Rancho Cucamonga
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Is all that we see and seem but a dream within a dream
Dude! You missed the pic. Its the south end of a north bound chic. In all seriousness tho I empathize with our brothers struggle.Looks like what? Where is this pic everyone is talking about? I don't see a pic. I wanna see the pic!
Yes, pain can be felt in lucid dreams. It is mostly a dull, numb pain, from my experiences. Like pinching your dead arm after sleeping on it for who knows how long. On average, I would say 20% of my lucid dreams contained smells, whereas I can only remember tasting something a few times.I once dreamt i was being electrocuted. It HURT. I cannot ever remember dreaming smells or flavors though. cn
I agree, sometimes i feel taken advantage of when i put everything into making her feel the best i can and to get her off however she wants... when it seems like she is always trying to just get off and then she's done. I want more than that, i want to eat her out and get blown with the same enthusiasm i give her. I don't care if it's all just an act, as long as she is doing it to make me feel good, just as i do her, then there isn't a problem.I can completely empathize with your position, dude, an ex of mine felt the same way about giving head as your girlfriend, and I feel the same way you do about it, blowjobs my favorite. I can understand if you don't like giving head, but do you like giving me pleasure and making me feel good? Refusing to do it, or doing a pointless half assed job that lacks enthusiasm tells me you're prioritizing your dislikes over my likes, and in this case, my LOVES. THAT is the issue. Meanwhile, as Z said, I may not like eating pussy, but to me, your likes outweigh my dislikes. That's how it's supposed to work in a relationship.
It's not something that I would break up over initially, but things like that tend to bleed over into other aspects of the relationship and you soon discover she's more and more prioritizing her wants/needs above yours when it should be an equal give and take sort of thing.
I want to make her feel good and she likes it.Then don't eat her out?
Every time she wants me to, both of us, and yes.Are you just eating her out every day? Are you initiating or is she? Is she an enthusiastic sex partner otherwise?
Yes, we both do.Does she have a full time job?
I agree with you, so what do you suggest i do?(Although if you want to make things work with your GF, i must stress that seeing a girl that is a sexual fantasy of yours is NOT going to help)
Hardly at all, and when she does she acts like it's a chore, like "ok lets get this over with so you can fuck me" kind of thing.How often does she blow you?
I've talked to her about it a few times, she agrees and says she will try harder but she never does.What is her response when/if you were to tell her this? Does she just say "I don't like to do it.."? Why doesn't she like to do it?
Some bull shit huh? lol[I don't really know how to solve this one, as I never did myself, can't make a chick like to give head. You can at least work with it even if she doesn't like it, I can never get into it unless they like it. And it's funny.. all of them tell you they like doing it before anything is ever official, you know what they say about what happens after marriage is true.. Some chicks seem to use that type of shit as a commitment prison.