Shes in here asking for opinions on her situation. Stop being so sensitive and Im just telling her what would have been best. So please stop being all angry dude and slow down.
You just couldnt sit back and watch it grow huh? All you had to do was water, feed when needed and she would do the rest. What did you think was going to happen when you topped and defoliated, it would grow like a tree!? Learn from this, I know I did.. Happy growing