And how exactly do you think a kid might derive the effort required to become valedictorian? Clearly that method is not very effective as there are a lot more kids stuck in the ghetto than there are competing for top academic spot in high school.
Kids derive the effort needed to succeed in life by having good role models in their lives pushing them to succeed, eating a nutritious diet to keep their body functioning, stable household/family life... These are luxuries you take for granted because they are always available.
To say it's as simple as "just work harder" takes away from the argument. I know people who have spent their entire working careers working much harder than more financially successful people. How do you account for that in this magic all encompassing plan to just "work harder"? The point of the thread is to prove to you people that that is simply not how it works. If all the toilet cleaners simply "worked harder", who would clean the toilets? In our economic system, someone will always have to do the dirty low wage jobs, regardless of how hard they work.
I would say being a janitor or plumber is just as hard as anything else
Working hard is just one aspect. It's responsibility with the paycheck.
You might say, well, they are responsible with it, a single mom with two kids, her paycheck don't got far.
And you are right.
But somewhere along the line that single mom made a poor choice.
She was a slut.. Got knocked up, and is now economically hampered because of it.
Her husband left her. A bit more sympathy here. But, if she had tried to be an independent person fist, then a wife, she wouldn't be in a mess. Here I wouldn't say she made a bad choice, but could have made better ones.
Her husband died. Makes that $30/month term life policy look more attractive doesn't it?
My point, we make a buch of choices in our life, and many have consequences down steam. Many aren't wrong, but sometimes that is just how the cookie crumbles.
My bad choice was addiction, it's cost me a law degree, two+ years of productivity, and until that point I had a significant savings account and a fairly new car. Luckily I didn't cash in my mutual account, but I haven't added anything to it in 3 years.
If I could have retired at 60, that incident probably pushed me back to 65 or 70, if I don't fuck up with it again.
Other than food stamps, which I did not voluntarily sign up for, I took no government handouts. I said no thanks to a disability check and a basically free place to live. Basically I could have had a free home and over $1k a month in benefits. But that just isn't my goal.