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puffdatchronic

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Hey guys quick question. Is it creepy to add someones number to your phone if they are in a group chat with you but never actually said you could have their number. Im thinking it is.. But then im pretty shy.. Maybe its no big deal. Anyway I left a group chat.. Not before saving a girl I likes number. Was thinking of whatsapping her privately to ask if anyone said anything bout me leaving. Then my better judgement kicked in and I thought.. Damn thats maybe kinda creepy I did that..but not sure tbh.... Is it?
 
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OddBall1st

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puffdatchronic said:
Hey guys quick question. Is it creepy to add someones number to your phone if they are in a group chat with you but never actually said you could have their number. Im thinking it is.. But then im pretty shy.. Maybe its no big deal. Anyway I left a group chat.. Not before saving a girl I likes number. Was thinking of whatsapping her privately to ask if anyone said anything bout me leaving. Then my better judgement kicked in and I thought.. Damn thats maybe kinda creepy I did that..but not sure tbh.... Is it?
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Your next move will be.....
You gotta tell her you have it, or don`t.....creepy.........either way.
 
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irish4:20

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puffdatchronic said:
Hey guys quick question. Is it creepy to add someones number to your phone if they are in a group chat with you but never actually said you could have their number. Im thinking it is.. But then im pretty shy.. Maybe its no big deal. Anyway I left a group chat.. Not before saving a girl I likes number. Was thinking of whatsapping her privately to ask if anyone said anything bout me leaving. Then my better judgement kicked in and I thought.. Damn thats maybe kinda creepy I did that..but not sure tbh.... Is it?
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puffdatchronic

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I mean.. She is in my team at work and we are kinda freindly with each other..just no numbrr exhange.. Is she going to find it creepy I added her to my contacts given the chance..its not like shes some randomer... I mean if she texted me outa the blue id be flattered but maybe im weird
 
mr sunshine

mr sunshine

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puffdatchronic said:
I mean.. She is in my team at work and we are kinda freindly with each other..just no numbrr exhange.. Is she going to find it creepy I added her to my contacts given the chance..its not like shes some randomer... I mean if she texted me outa the blue id be flattered but maybe im weird
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Why don't you ask her if it's OK that you saved her number.. If she says no its not ok. Which she probably won't just delete it and move on.
 
ClaytonBigsby

ClaytonBigsby

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Doesn't anyone just meet girls at Victoria's Secret anymore? That's where I used to go to troll for the ladies. Pretty much the only "guy in town" and you can see their lady bits if you linger by the dressing room. Some of my best lines were, "hey, these panties would look good around your neck", and "size up, so those can be pulled to the side".

This new technology is out of my expertise, sorry. I'm getting old.

I don;t think it's creepy if you only use it once. I mean, she knew it was public info at that point, right?
 
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puffdatchronic

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Yeah she knew it was public. Is it really that bad I saved it considering were colleagues...mm she might..but might not..Really duuno
 
ClaytonBigsby

ClaytonBigsby

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I think it's actually more acceptable as your thinking was you may need it someday for work related contact............ right???
 
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puffdatchronic

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Just thinking she might think..well we work together..probably would like each others number..my number was out there to be saved.he saved it so he could message me. Whats the issue..

Or she might think..omg why did this guy take the liberty of thinking I wanted to give him my number

Ill prolly leave it
 
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puffdatchronic

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mr sunshine said:
Just forget it, your creepiness already killed it..

Bottom line is its fine the only reason it might not be fine is because you made it that way... tomorrow ask her for her number if she says no or I'm gay then move on.
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Well I did think it was ok. Just had a doubt that it mightnt be. But it just depends on her. I wasnt planning on asking her out just yet or anything just establish that we are now watsap buddies. But again if she isnt down with that ill look like a creep and a stalker and work will be super bad. So ill just leave it.
 
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