rant:boyfriends.

jessiekay77

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i don't have one, because it always seems that the ones i get want me to give up something. i've had a guy ask me to quit smoking weed, quit smoking cigarettes, quit drinking..

i know there's guys out there that will support my bad habits
(or at least let me be...)

but why do the ones i get always want to change me?


(p.s. even when i was with a girl, she didnt want me to blaze. i guess either way i'm fucked..)
 

funkdocKT

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i'll support all of your bad habits...we can do them together

my thoughts on the subject...everyone in the world has had similar situations to yours...to me it has to do with people not being able to be content and satisfied...

everyone has to "keep up with the jones'" so while you may think youre doing everything in the world for your partner, its never good enough because the GRASS IS ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE...ive been to the other side and guess what...SAME FUCKING GRASS

no matter what you do, people with personalities like that will never be content with you..yes, you may fix what they ask but as soon as you do they'll ask for something different...

its not you, its the inadequacy of man...
 

jessiekay77

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You do have a point.
I decided after my last thing ended (He decided to get engaged before he left for Iraq) that if one more person asked me to quit anything for them, i'd tell them to kick rocks..
i also hate when girls get mad at me for smoking with their boyfriends.
like i can be a hypocrite and tell them not to smoke just because some bitch asked them not to.

why not share the love? :D

i just want to live in a world where i am accepted.
but, prop 8 passed and people still want me to quit.

one day the world will change :D
 

funkdocKT

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kick rocks..
niiiiiice....i thought i was the only one around still using "kick rocks"


i also hate when girls get mad at me for smoking with their boyfriends.
like i can be a hypocrite and tell them not to smoke just because some bitch asked them not to.
thats insecurity rearing its ugly head...those chicks arent happy with themselves so they always feel attacked...even by the most innocent of situations
 

ststepen420

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i know how ya feel, i was dating a girl for about a year but she was totally against any kind of "drugs" so i never told her i smoked but how she didnt figure it out is crazy to me because id be stoned off my ass, bloodshot eyes, i even smelled like weed half the time. Well finally one day i was like "you know what, ive smoked pot everyday the entire time weve been together so either you can handle that or you cant, whats it gonna be?" and then we broke up, not so much because the pot but apparently because "i had been lying to her for a year" which is bullshit, i lied once and she never asked me again lol. But anyways there are plenty of good stoner boyfriends out there that would only ask you to be you and thats it.
 

jessiekay77

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niiiiiice....i thought i was the only one around still using "kick rocks"
lol lol lol
i say it all the time and people do that head tilt like wtf are you talking about?

i have to admit when i was with one of my exes he had started up smoking again (before i had gotten the habit) and i was pissed that he hid it from me.
but then i started smoking and it was all gravy :D:D

i think if someone told me straight up that the drugs were affecting me as a person, i'd be more likely to change
but people cant talk shit about weed when some days its the only thing keeping me from throwin a few punches :D
 

motoracer110

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dang, sorry to hear that. My ex-girlfriend was the same way. I had to smoke weed without her knowing or when she caught me i would have to sleep on the couch. some people are rough out there. But look at the bright side there are good people out there that will support you for who you are no matter what. Im still looking for that person
 

jessiekay77

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i don't really let it get to me anymore.
i have a best friend and a dog that keep me sane most days.

but, they dont help with the sex addiction...

damnit.
 

kingtrip

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I've always been partial to "Go fly a kite"

but "kick rocks" is good too!

Anyways, I digress...

I think everyone would agree that they've been with someone who didn't like a particular vice they were guilty of. Either one of two things is going to happen, either your significant other is going to accept it and not bother you about it, or they're going try to make you change.

As reality would have it, if you have to "change your ways" for the other party to be happy, the relationship won't work. It's not fair to either party involved, so if that's ever the case, it's probably a good sign to start looking for a new one.

Happy Hunting!

Trip:leaf:
 

jessiekay77

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thats what you got funk for...

monterey is only 2 hours away...meet me halfway?...lol
rather you than the guys here who have probably slept with every girl in town except me :P

when they say everyone knows everyone in a small town,
they don't just mean neighbors :P
 

Big P

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i don't really let it get to me anymore.
i have a best friend and a dog that keep me sane most days.

but, they dont help with the sex addiction...

damnit.


ya im pretty sure you can find somone that can help you out with that



mybe walk into a star bucks and say "yo" "who wants to fuck!"

thats how i do itbongsmilie
 

jessiekay77

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not really. like 10k people.
but one high school.
so unless you got kicked out you go to the same school with everyone else.
and like the groups couple off within their groups so they get kind of incestuous.
 
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