Child Support Rant
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Zekedogg
100% Authentic A$$Hole
only have 6 months left of itif you have custody of your kids and you are still paying the ex $300 a month then rant all you want my friend.
RASCALONE
Well-Known Member
im in simialar position somewhat,i have five children,4 of them live with me and my wife,my oldest was concived when i was 17, i was out gang banging,living a gangster life,thinking i was a big man.ive been in and out of prison the first 9 years of his life,needless to say we really dont have a good relation ship with each other.here in california they subtract all the time while incarcerated,i owe about close to a hundred g's.once i stopped all my bullshit and really became a man in 2001 ive been working and paying my child support,even when im not working i pay the bill on top of all the extra's a kid needs to survive,and of course my x takes in any fucken dirt pot,scumbag she wants to bone that night.but even though i still support my son,i used to think all fucked up and say"fuck that bitch,she aint getting none of my money"boy was i really a mess to think that i didnt need to pay,they need it!a roof over her head is a roof over his,and the same as the car,he needs rides to school,sports,parks everything.but ill never be able to pay off all that money,the inrest is killing me,but thats what i gotta deal with.but as for u ernie,i dont think that is right for u to pay after the fact that they took ur children,what ever happened to u and ur women at the time for them to get taken away is ashame,im sorry for ur loss.no matter what the case,i know any parents plan is not to get their children taken away.i know its to late now,from what u say,to get them back.but maybe u can settle it up some how to clear that debt,good luck bro,and again i fell for u,if it helps at all,someday they will look you up pal,trust me>>>>rascalone
TheConstantGardner
Well-Known Member
Ernie, is your ex-wife paying any child support?
I bet she isn't responsible even though she was present for the baby-making.
I bet she isn't responsible even though she was present for the baby-making.
Erniedytn
Master of Mayhem
When we parted ways they were coming after her as well, so yes, she is supposed to be paying. Don't know how thats going though...we have not spoke in 3 years.
Erniedytn
Master of Mayhem
I would if my ex had custody, but they are both pretty well off what with their new families and all. They terminated my parental rights, adopted the kids out to seperate families, but yet I'm supposed to still pay for them? I think not.......
Erniedytn
Master of Mayhem
I agree that I was in no shape to take care of them, and yes it is my fault I lost them. Like you say, you don't plan these things. I hate that it happened, and I miss them every single day...but what is done is done. So in a way it's a good thing that it has caught up with me...better to resolve it now rather than run from it my whole life. I have called a few attorneys and its probably going to cost me around $10,000 to resolve it, but when that's done it's over.
Thanks for the kind words Rascal
Erniedytn
Master of Mayhem
So I talked to my lawyer this morning and he said that I definately have a case here. He said about 3 hours of his time and $600 will make all of this go away, and in the end they (child support enforcement) will probably end up owing me money...so HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA....what do you think now Mogie?
right on Mogie! Why do think so many of this generation are so fucked up? Because thier parents don't take any responsibility for thier actions or the result of them. They are your kids, be a man and stop making excuses and take care of them! How will they ever care about themselves or others if thier own father doesn't?????
Do you see a cycle of repetition here?
Do you see a cycle of repetition here?
For all of you people out there that think men get shafted. They do sometimes, but if you do everything right men have just as much of a chance of getting custody as the women. I have full custody, and my ex-wife just recently lost her license and spent a few nights in jail for non-payment.
I built my case and based everything on the current situation to the judge. The judge sided with me and gave me everything I was asking for. The reason for me winning was that the ex did not want to work, she has always wanted a man to take care of her. I won this case on sheer evidence alone and my proven track record while I had them in my custody, I had no attorney. I proved that, I payed 90% of all their expenses, and judge did not like the fact that the ex only paid something when she happened to be working. Oh, drugs or weed had nothing at all to do with this either. I quit smoking for 3 years just because of this.
To the men do not go in thinking your going to lose, be a man step up to the plate and fight. Show a positive history with your kids, always take the high road. Provide strong arguments. You will be amazed at what can happen.
I know if I let her have custody, my girl would probably be pregnant and my boy would be in jail. That was not happening.
I built my case and based everything on the current situation to the judge. The judge sided with me and gave me everything I was asking for. The reason for me winning was that the ex did not want to work, she has always wanted a man to take care of her. I won this case on sheer evidence alone and my proven track record while I had them in my custody, I had no attorney. I proved that, I payed 90% of all their expenses, and judge did not like the fact that the ex only paid something when she happened to be working. Oh, drugs or weed had nothing at all to do with this either. I quit smoking for 3 years just because of this.
To the men do not go in thinking your going to lose, be a man step up to the plate and fight. Show a positive history with your kids, always take the high road. Provide strong arguments. You will be amazed at what can happen.
I know if I let her have custody, my girl would probably be pregnant and my boy would be in jail. That was not happening.
