Why Do Girlfriends Make It So Hard To Grow Herb?

[SkunkaDunk]

When things are cool, explain how negatively it could impact your family if the cops were to show up on a domestic or something unrelated and discover what ya go going on. Could lose your job, jeopardize your situation with the kids, etc. fuck who knows...ask if it's a chance she's really willing to take, maybe she'll think twice about having any further outbursts.

Of course, if this doesn't work just kick her in the cunt as mentioned above and throw her ass out

 

[XDGreenson80]

I feel your pain bro, women seem to change when you have kids with them. It depends on what went on in their lives growing up. If you have some extra cash, put you a good lawyer on retainer. Keep a couple rolls of duct tape on hand for that bitch when she flips out, and let her know she doesn't run shit. Hate to say it, but me and my lady still fight every once in awhile. You have to sit her down and have one of those deep heart to heart talks. She has to understand, depending on where you live that the law doesn't give a fuck and if she has one of her episodes they could take both of you to jail and take your kids. Point being, if she enjoys smoking the finest, shopping, and watching her reality shows, all that shit can change quick. Remind her how good she really has it!!! Good luck to you bro!!

 

[grokillaz]

I hid the stash till she realizes she an ungrateful little witch and has to change her ways.

 

[Devildog93]

If you even slightly like me or other growers in here, you probably show a bunch of interest in it, and she feels that your weed gets more attention than she does.

Been thru the same bullshit. Get rid of her, or the crop. I know what I would choose.

 

[Pew]

Has the garden replaced attention or time she used-to get? If you're working a ton & putting more time into gardening, she could be lashing out cuz she needs more (adult?) (1 on 1?) time with you. This may be best-case scenario. Otherwise, If shes just overly spoiled, you cannot let her wear the pants or its only going to get worse. Like a child screaming until it gets what it wants.

EDIT: Jinx!

 

[grokillaz]

Was sapposed to harvest two plants today too. Og fire crosses. My schedule is fuct now and my plants might be getting seeded. Been two weeks since I checked the patch and that last visit I put 3 unsexed plants in the ground. Have 3 ssh 2 frisian dews, 2 og fire crosses, 2 satori's and 1 early purple kush. Oh well... Gonna have the shit load of beans if there are any males.

 

[bulla]

The thing is, women does not listen to rational arguments. EVERYTHING IS EMOTIONS to them, it is HOW you say stuff, not WHAT you say.
You have to really understand where her emotions are coming from, or you'll never get along.
I learned that a long time ago, women are not like us that way.

if your gonna stick with her tell her one thing and pound it in her fucking head BITCH WE GOT KIDS I GO DOWN CAUSE OF U WE ALL GO DOWN .... she will change her tune when it comes to being loud trust me no bitch wants to think she's gonna leave her kids....yes chances are if u get busted your gonna take that ride alone but she dont have to know that....im glad my ladys my best friend i dont worry about this kinda shit hell i almost think she likes it ,it keeps me in the closet lol

 

[MsBBB]

maybe its a jealousy issue but my girlfriend has turned into such a bitch since I been growing. Making big scenes and shit. Lucky I have cool neighbors or the cops woulda been here a bunch of times. The more I try the more things work against me. Its killing me.

Maybe it's not the girlfriend that is making it so hard to grow. Growing can take up a lot of time and if you don't manage your priorities and responsibilites properly you are giving your woman ammunition to start fights and to be unhappy with you. You work and bring home the money and she takes care of children and the household, sounds like. More than likely children that work her last nerve, children will be children. Does she have any adult contacts other than you? She might just need some attention from you. Do you spend time with her and the children together and separately? Are you neglecting your household or manly duties because of your job and growing? Most of us just need some attention.

One of my main requirements of a man, don't let me rule you. I don't want a man that will let me do or say whatever the hell I want and he just takes it. Stand up, be a man. Let her know that you are not her child to be yelled at. Let her know that she has to treat you like she wants to be treated. It takes two to fight and if you two are that loud maybe the neighbors should call the popo. Do your part.

 

[MsBotwin]

That bitch will put you in jail. It's only a matter of time. Ditch her or the weed... I think you know what everybody here will tell you to do.

Sorry to say, if you ditch her with kids, you'll also have to ditch the the weed. Nothing like a Mommy scorned, lol.

 

[grokillaz]

She's always apologizes after saying " you know how I get". To me that's a terrible excuse. She should be able to control her temper . She is just a hot head even her mom told me she has anger issues. Great tell me that after I had kids with her. I feel I do more than my duties at work and at home. She also just got done with a 3 week shopping spree. There went the tax returns. Does anybody else think 900 bucks is kinda pricey for a stroller especially in this recession?

 

[MsBBB]

She's always apologizes after saying " you know how I get". To me that's a terrible excuse. She should be able to control her temper . She is just a hot head even her mom told me she has anger issues. Great tell me that after I had kids with her. I feel I do more than my duties at work and at home. She also just got done with a 3 week shopping spree. There went the tax returns. Does anybody else think 900 bucks is kinda pricey for a stroller especially in this recession?

If you roll like that...If that is the lifestyle that you are living and you can afford to pay $900 for a "baby" stroller what's the problem? If not, and you can't afford it you had better stand up and be a man like I told you earlier. Don't come up in here whinning if you aren't going to do anything to get your situation together.

You know that women have hormonal issues that can sometime set us off, but if she has real anger issues you might wake up some morning in itty bitty pieces. You hurry up and grow a set or I'll send you mine.

 

[grokillaz]

If you roll like that...If that is the lifestyle that you are living and you can afford to pay $900 for a "baby" stroller what's the problem? If not, and you can't afford it you had better stand up and be a man like I told you earlier. Don't come up in here whinning if you aren't going to do anything to get your situation together.

You know that women have hormonal issues that can sometime set us off, but if she has real anger issues you might wake up some morning in itty bitty pieces. You hurry up and grow a set or I'll send you mine.

I'm guessing you girls might be related.

 

[Indicator]

One of my main requirements of a man, don't let me rule you. I don't want a man that will let me do or say whatever the hell I want and he just takes it. Stand up, be a man. Let her know that you are not her child to be yelled at. Let her know that she has to treat you like she wants to be treated. It takes two to fight and if you two are that loud maybe the neighbors should call the popo. Do your part.

Preach on sistah! Couldn't agree more. The funny thing is, the last thing I want when I'm in a snit is for someone (whether they deserve it or not) to be calm and cool, it almost feels condescending. Show me some freakin' backbone ( I don't mean violence), say your peace, it validates you as a person... not a doormat. Then, as someone else said, have some great angry sex!
and wow... $900 for a stroller? At the price, sounds like more little ones are planned?

 

[r1tony]

Whoa.. whoa.. if your girl gives you hard time about weed or just growing? If its about weed in general.. kick her to the curb.

 

[Vices]

Your girl should never know you're growing PERIOD.. how many times have you woken up think shit's cool and your girl decides she'll take off for something else, can't read women.. no matter how hard you'll try.

All you gotta do is fuck around, not make enough dough, or whatever else the flavour of the week is to get her out the door.. once she goes around the block what's stopping her from ratting? What's the negatives? The reasons to rat seem pretty favourable..

- Get cash
- Get respect/have people listen to you
- Get revenge..

Marijuana is WAY to illegal to have anyone know about it, nobody should know but your buyers.. and you better feed them the same bs that you get a "monthly" shipment from your brother up in BC..

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Get this bitch to the curb, or someone else is gonna make you their bitch in prison..

 

[Pew]

If shes just overly spoiled, you cannot let her wear the pants or its only going to get worse.

. She also just got done with a 3 week shopping spree. There went the tax returns. Does anybody else think 900 bucks is kinda pricey for a stroller

Bet she needed an expensive engagement ring/pricey wedding? SPOILED.
What happens when you max out your credit, or run out of money, or say No? How long does the game go on?

 

[TheDemocrat]

the ladies are all about the money and if you get busted you have NO money.....

 

[Johnnyorganic]

maybe its a jealousy issue but my girlfriend has turned into such a bitch since I been growing. Making big scenes and shit. Lucky I have cool neighbors or the cops woulda been here a bunch of times. The more I try the more things work against me. Its killing me.

My biggest mistake is having kids with this cunt.

I work every single fucking day. Construction , and I have to come home to this shit. Daddys bringing in the dough so just stfu girl.

You and I have completely different definitions of the term 'girlfriend.'

You have children with her. Presumably you live with her.

What you call a girlfriend, I call a wife.

And she objects to you growing in the house, around the children.

/sarc on

What a fucking bitch.

/sarc off

Perhaps it's time you realized you are not fifteen anymore.

 

[puffntuff]

Dude just get a script of vallum and xannys. Drop them in the bitches drink right when you get home. Problem solved!! Next.

 

[killeroxx]

wow this thread is the shit And I FEEL YA 199% BUD IIm going threw the same shit..and the girls make some good points thats for DAM sure and i wont specify but between you I and the rest of the guys....Pss..come closer..."isnt crazy how no matter what girl you talk to they all think the same" lol you explained your problem and im thinking holy shit is he dateing the same chick im with lmao anyway im glad you posted this thread cause I to could use some talk time with other dudes who I knw r going threw the same bickering bull shitt on a day to day basis...and I dont know about you but im geting the FUCK up on outa here cause I realized im better off just taken care of myself and kids and thats the only thing that matters when it comes down to the bare bones and blood ya DIG...do whats best for you...