Potential risk!!! Should I cut?

[Hypocrite420]

hey guys n gals... I'm on my first grow here in VA and ive run into my first issue... I have a roomate who I have known for years. He has always been a loyal friend. Well up until recently... He has had some issues with my girlfriend and has been disrespecting her. He has even persuaded me to disrespect her. Regardless, her and I are about to break up over this guys bullshit so last night we were drinking and got into a pretty serious fist fight. The police had to break it up kind of serious. They also took a bowl off me and I have court for that in 3 weeks now. I obviously have to kick this guy out of my house if I want to keep my kids in my life. Sad thing is, this guy knows about my grow room. I wouldn't think that he would use that information against me, but now a days (and especially in this neck of the woods) you cant really trust your own family. I am torn between cutting them down or continuing as planned... I think the obvious answer is that I should chop and wait til this mess blows over huh? If I do chop, would it be worth saving the leaf and stem for anything? I have 2 ladies each a month into flowering and a clone from each 1 week into flower...

 

[massah]

not even remotely ready...but man it sounds like its not worth the risk...I'd chop it down...throw it in some bins with a shitton of silica gel packets and hand it off to a friend you trust...scrub, clean, and get rid of all growing equipment asap...break up with the girl...move across country...start over...

 

[D.B.Doober]

hey that one plant is doing pretty damn good for CFL. wow. I don't know what you should do...maybe move the plants to another place and kick the guy out. Will take like 30 days to kick him out though. Not sure what you should do man.

 

[massah]

hey that one plant is doing pretty damn good for CFL. wow. I don't know what you should do...maybe move the plants to another place and kick the guy out. Will take like 30 days to kick him out though. Not sure what you should do man.

He needs to do what will protect himself...and keeping that grow going amid such turmoil is a BAD idea...

 

[Balzac89]

Whats better freedom or growing pot that is what I ask myself when shit goes down. Plus you can always start over, live and learn bro.

 

[Hypocrite420]

not even remotely ready...but man it sounds like its not worth the risk...I'd chop it down...throw it in some bins with a shitton of silica gel packets and hand it off to a friend you trust...scrub, clean, and get rid of all growing equipment asap...break up with the girl...move across country...start over...

Is it a bad idea to keep the equipment? I mean its not illegal to own fluorescent lights lol. I don't have any serious HPS or anything. Just CFLs and the one tube. As long as there is no ganja growing in the room it should be straight right? And about the girl, I have twin 3-year-old girls with her. Man we havent been getting along lately but its because of financial stress and shit, I would really hate to leave her and my kids, but I can't stand living in this state. I want to move across country but shes got 2 other kids w a different father here so she cant move. I got friends in Cali, Denver, and Detroit I want to go!!!! But man I really can't leave my kids.

 

[Hypocrite420]

hey that one plant is doing pretty damn good for CFL. wow. I don't know what you should do...maybe move the plants to another place and kick the guy out. Will take like 30 days to kick him out though. Not sure what you should do man.

thanks man, I thought I was doin pretty good too for my first grow ever and having such limited supplies.

 

[Hypocrite420]

Whats better freedom or growing pot that is what I ask myself when shit goes down. Plus you can always start over, live and learn bro.

yup. I just needed someone else to tell me that. I kept trying to tell myself that, but my brain says KEEP THE WEED!!!!!! lol. But I know the safe thing would be to get rid of them. My lease isnt up til april tho so its gonna suck to not be able to even start another plant until then. Shit, i'll only be able to get in 1 or 2 grows before the end of the world lol.

 

[Hypocrite420]

also, is all that leaf and stem worth anything? I don't know what it takes to make butter or a little hash or something

 

[jonblaze420]

You need to have a sit down conversation with your roomate and your child's mother and smooth everything out. Accept responsibility.

Do the right thing. Have your cake and eat it too.

Use the financial stressors as your main excuse.

 

[smokey mcsmokester]

Is trying to talk to him and square things away an option? Maybe apoligize (even if it is his fault, which sounds like it is) just until your grow is over.... Give him the man I dn't want our friendship to end like this blah blah blah story....

 

[jonblaze420]

Is trying to talk to him and square things away an option? Maybe apoligize (even if it is his fault, which sounds like it is) just until your grow is over.... Give him the man I dn't want our friendship to end like this blah blah blah story....

Was thinkin the same thing broseph.

 

[Hypocrite420]

Is trying to talk to him and square things away an option? Maybe apoligize (even if it is his fault, which sounds like it is) just until your grow is over.... Give him the man I dn't want our friendship to end like this blah blah blah story....

it might be possible but the deal is, my girl is gonna kick me out if I don't kick him out. and I dont really give a fuck about that, but I don't want to lose my kids.

 

[massah]

Is trying to talk to him and square things away an option? Maybe apoligize (even if it is his fault, which sounds like it is) just until your grow is over.... Give him the man I dn't want our friendship to end like this blah blah blah story....

Depends on how bad that fight was...considering the cops needed to be called to break it up...sounds like that friendship is all over with...at least it would be for me

 

[massah]

it might be possible but the deal is, my girl is gonna kick me out if I don't kick him out. and I dont really give a fuck about that, but I don't want to lose my kids.

Then you have your answer...you want to guarantee you keep your kids...I think you know what you need to do man

 

[Hypocrite420]

plus actually I don't really know how messed up he is. I havent seen him yet but from what I remember I think I would have seriously injured him had the police not shown up.

 

[jonblaze420]

plus actually I don't really know how messed up he is. I havent seen him yet but from what I remember I think I would have seriously injured him had the police not shown up.

He hasn't come by to pick up any of his stuff?

 

[smokey mcsmokester]

it might be possible but the deal is, my girl is gonna kick me out if I don't kick him out. and I dont really give a fuck about that, but I don't want to lose my kids.

I understand... But try to (an I mean TRY TO...lol...(woman are so bullheaded)..) to explain to her kicking him out is going to be detrimental to you all (kids, you, your woman) because the scumbag will almost definately turn you in out of spite....

 

[jonblaze420]

How did your roomate persuade you to disrespect your girlfriend? That's interesting to me as well.

 

[Hypocrite420]

na he has nowhere to go really. I think he would have to move back to Louisiana or something if he left here. I don't plan on just throwin his ass in the street. He was a good friend of mine. I'll give him the 30 days, but idk how pissed he is and don't think my kids are worth the risk.