Rule Number 1#. "Dont Let Anybody Know About your Operation"
that hurtsSo I have been growing a couple bagseed seeds for a couple months now. My plants are my pride and joy! Well the gf and I got into a big big fight...sigh...
Some before and after pics...
I can say that because ive been around a long long time & ive seen it many times,even in my own family & from myself when i was a young man.How could you say something like that about two people that you dont even know. How could one say that they are self centered if you dont know what the fight was about.
We're talking to a wall here, panH. I keep wondering, don't they have mothers? Oy.I can say that because ive been around a long long time & ive seen it many times,even in my own family & from myself when i was a young man.
Was your motive behind taking her phone & hiding it intended to push her buttons,also was your reasoning behind not giving it back to her intended to push her as far as possible ? Correct me if im wrong here,what was your motive.
What was her motive with your plants,was it to be a good girlfriend, or was it to express her hatred of you that very moment for taking away something of her's that she care's about,her smashing of your plants was not meant as payback to get even for the phone, it was meant to take it past the level you set with the phone.
Both you guy's push each others buttons,it's all cool when your young & after the fight is over your back in love & run off & fuck like maniac's but those type relationships do not last,couples who try to win arguements always break up.
Christian, I appreciate your wish to make a stand against being trampled on but at a time when both you and your girlfriend are angry and emotional and your plants are at risk does not seem the best time to do so.My plants are my pride and joy, just as i would think the same of anyone that grew as well.
Think of not giving something back, bc you are just tired of her stomping all over you, and this time you wont be the one to back down. So with that mind set, if in the past ive always backed down, and im not this time... Things will get out of hand bc someone has to stop, and you see how far it went.... At the time i didnt know if she would do it or not.... it wasnt about that really, it was just the thought that she would even think about doing that was worse... See the thing is we germinated them together, so its not like they arent "hers"... But as i take care of them for the most part, i see that i have a different bond with them than she does.
Well im happy that the cops didnt come and im still around. I know that she has talked to a few of her friends, and im not really worried about the word traveling.
See this why my gf and I dont have a problem with the comments/advice we get I know that everyone is making their best opinion with the information that you've gathered, but the actual situation is different.Christian, I appreciate your wish to make a stand against being trampled on but at a time when both you and your girlfriend are angry and emotional and your plants are at risk does not seem the best time to do so.
You say that you are happy that the cops didn't come around and that you're not worried about the word [about your growing] travelling. IMHO, that does not seem consistent with your claim that these plants are really important to you. I only raised these issues because I felt that to really ensure your plants' survival you needed to look at the bigger picture. You can take the best care of your plants possible and invest in all kinds of nutes, lights etc, but if at the same time you're doing that, you're going around spreading the word that you're growing, it puts your plants at far more risk of theft or a bust. I doubt the police would care about a small grow like yours but if someone does make a complaint which can be verified, seeing as their job is to enforce the law - regardless of your or their opinion of that law -they don't have much choice other than to investigate.
Finally, you could have started this thread with no information about your girlfriends involvement by saying that the plants were knocked over by a pet/ something fell on them/ you dropped them etc. By relaying the whole story of your argument with your girlfriend you solicitated comment about your relationship. Personally speaking, if I was your girlfriend, seeing that you'd started a thread which basically invited people to make derogatory comments about your girlfriend (and I notice you have made no attempt to defend her) would only make me feel more pissed off with you and increase the likelihood I'd turn you in. If she has talked about this incident with her friends and maybe shown them this thread, I could imagine them all advising her to dump you and turn you in.
Lastly, whatever reason you had for hiding her cellphone, in doing so you basically showed her that you had no respect for her property and therefore you can't really expect her to have any for yours.
Christian I'm glad to hear that you and your girlfriend are taking the comments here well and I think it shows a great disposition on her part that she can ignore the many negative comments made in this thread about her and move on. I hope that this means the two of you have recovered from your disagreement and that things are better for both of you. I only pointed out the things I did regarding the security of your plants because I would feel terrible for any grower who was busted. I have had a couple of friends who have been and was once present during a police search of a friend's home and even being indirectly involved was not a nice experience. I really hope that you manage to nurse your plants back to health and that some time in the future you and your girlfriend can both sit back and enjoy the fruits of your labour. I am sure everyone who has contributed to this post would be really interested in hearing how your grow goes so if you do manage to sort those plants out, you should give us all an update with more photos on how you're going. All the very best to you and your girlfriend with your grow and I hope it all works out really well for you.See this why my gf and I dont have a problem with the comments/advice we get I know that everyone is making their best opinion with the information that you've gathered, but the actual situation is different.
as a proud volcano owner... if my volcano still worked at that point... i would stuff the GF in a grinder and vaporize her!My gf drop my volcano on purpose. Had to take it apart and fuck around a little but it works. Dnt break up with girls in front if shit you care about LOL
i wonder why after 2 months your "pride and joy" were in less than 1 quart of dirt. u need bigger pots and no clear plastic.My plants are my pride and joy!
You're on the wrong coast my friend, it you came to the east coast, we'd be friends.mmmmmmm brownies ..... can i be your friend