hello and thanks mr ganja, you have given me a direction to check out and i'm grateful for that already my friend, what can one say to help a person trust another? it's difficult to prove trustworthiness as it's usually best earned but i'll try! just to let you know, i am obviously not affiliated in any way with any law and order mob, so just to show some trust back at you babe, in fact i'm a mental health nurse, so i got everything to lose potentially! married (but failing) and no social life or contacts anymore, smoked for nearly 30 years now, though much less the last few years and lost all me contacts and friends! really grateful for any help