I personally haven't seen a single kit that I like. Many kits come with equipment and ferts that you will end up replacing once you get into growing more. I don't mind helping at all, I actually enjoy working on projects. I currently have six plants under my 600 watt, it's a little crowded in the tent, but that is why I scrogged it. First place you need to start is where do you want to grow? I'm using a grow tent now and I hate it. They are handy for those that can't build anything, but for the money I could have built something way more bad ass. I kind of rushed into my indoor grow, which is why I have it.
What kind of funds are you prepared to invest into your room? This will determine to a large extent on what kind of set-up you should go with.