Anti-Green girlfriend...

I gotta a friend flying in from out of the US and we used to be close as hell before he had to move and not long after he left we were talkin and planed on getting baked as hell when he came back, well in the time he was gone i picked up a girl and we've are goin on 4 months Christmas day, she hates weed as much as she'd hate if if i was cheating, or atleast thats how she treated it in the past when we fought a month or 2 ago, i had to make up big time when she found out, she seems to have mellowed out a ltl but nothing to notice. Well he's flying in this week and this will probably be the only chance ill see him till next july atleast. I really don't want to Go behind her back cause thats how i almost lost her last time. you think it'd be worth just askin or some shit?

Advice? I completley cut out for her a few months ago and hated it all but still went through, i treat her great and all and i get my shit done in work and classes. Ask her? advice plz

get drunk... thats how she will end up smoking and if she smokes she won't give you shit for smoking..

You just have to slowly get her used to you smoking weed.

yeah, goo idea problem is she's like no drugs at all no alchohol no nothing...

I'm not sure why you agreed to let other people monitor your marijuana habits in the first place...you are your own person

I would go ahead and smoke up with your buddy, if she doesn't accept you for who you are, then she isn't worth the heartache. Also, never change for a girl, there are alot of them out there and you will find one who will love you for who you are. So rock some bong hits with your friend, and if she leaves you because of it, don't sweat it, forget it.

CHILLINxWITHxMARLEY said:

yeah, goo idea problem is she's like no drugs at all no alchohol no nothing...

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Man, how did you get mixed up with a t-totaler?

You've got to get her to loosen up a bit.

I did it regarless for awhile then cut down and that wasnt enough so i stoped, i smoked once or twice with a close friend but yeah

CHILLINxWITHxMARLEY said:

yeah, goo idea problem is she's like no drugs at all no alchohol no nothing...

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drop her like a coke habit. a chick that wants you to stop what you like to do, and control your actions is a girl who is just interested in what she wants, and not what you want. Just think how it will be down the road if pot gets her that upset. Is it worth it? if not, curb time...

Gafoogle said:

I'm not sure why you agreed to let other people monitor your marijuana habits in the first place...you are your own person

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This, +rep

Its only been 4 months cut your loses and find a chick that is on less of a moral high horse.
Other wise this is going to become an issue every time you wish to enjoy life in the future.

I see incompatebale approaches to life here, i'd cut my losses and move on.

ANC said:

I see incompatebale approaches to life here, i'd cut my losses and move on.

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^^ exactly this.
Dude, I was un-employed for like 3 months smoking pot everyday my girlfriend never gave a fuck... loved me unconditionally and for 3 months provided me with food and shelter(AND the weed)... now thats a woman... The only thing she doesn't like me doing is un-natural things.. like coke, pills, etc... shit I used to fuck with back in high school (and she knows this) but I wouldn't now.

The right ones are out there, and you got the wrong one bro... She's looking for someone else just like her.... no alcohol no drugs no nothing just do what she says.... so y'know what... dump her and let her control the next poor sucker cuz fuck that shit!

unless you live in small town where its hard to find a girl, id say dump this one..you dont want a chick controlling what you like to do..she seems a lil insecure to me.

Ask her if you can smoke? Is she your mom or girlfriend?

But for the issue at hand, when your buddy gets there have her go elsewhere so she's not hanging around and you guys won't have to worry. I guarantee your buddy doesn't want to come visit just to be stuck around some girl thats just gonna be bringing you down the whole time. Have guy time, enjoy his visit, deal with her later.

make her some weed brownies with a spiked egg nog and drop her off in the woods

drive off with your buddy enjoying life maybe hit a titty bar n never look back

Honestly man, the fact that your girlfriend hates weed and you love it is going to be a problem many times down the road in your relationship, not to be a pesimist, but it will probably be the reason you split. I know it sounds like im being an asshole but Im sick of guys thinking they have to bend over backwardsfor females when there are just as many males as there are females (approx, lol). If your with a girl, garunteed that theres one better for you (unles you beleive in soul mates, haha) and most definitly one that will accept your lifestyle and who you are.If your with someone they should respet your lifestyle and individual choices (weather they agree or not) and love you for the person you are regardless. If she constantly reminds you how much she dosent like it and tries to convince you not to smoke, thats ok, thats just her opinion and she beleives its harmful so shes looking out for you. Its when she forces her opinion onto you that it becomes a seirous problem. As for smoking with your buddy, I would be ashamed of you if you didnt and no you shouldnt ask her, you should tell her, respectfully of coarse. Im not saying break up with her, just try to explain to her that although you symphthize with her reasons for hating it, it is part of your life and if she cannot accept that I think you know what should be done. GIVEER DA BOOT

This is all about control. Walk away! I'm on my 2nd marriage and the 1st was controlling like that and it took 10 years to leave. Don't make that mistake. The controlling will continue and get worse over time.

Jus smoke and deal wit the fightn lata...if she wld really leave u over bud she prolly aint the one anyway and if she is the one jus stop smokin its simple..lol
BUT dont drop her... i repeat dont drop her lol evryone will tell u to do that but then ur stuck beatn ya dick cuz i dought u got bitchs on the side cuz u scared to smoke weed lmao!

Kill her and use her remains as soil to grow weed.