No you cannot just open the jars and expect them to be OK. You're about to ruin your harvest to mold.
Do what Demon Trich says - dump the buds in paper bags, one layer deep, put in a hygrometer and wait to jar them when they get to 65%. Even then, if you haven't already got mold, you need to still dump your jars for at least a couple more days and de-clump them by pulling the buds apart.
I'm not sure what you're reading for drying and curing but there's tons of useful information in the stickies provided. None of them recommending jarring them at 80% RH.