Dating someone who isnt involved with reefer.

Wh00p

Wh00p

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So I have been looking around the market..And i found this girl who is the shit.. She is everything that I would ever want.(at the moment) But she isnt involved with Reefer.. She doesnt know that I well..er..do..

from what she tells me about pot, her brother started off on pot and then moved on to heavy shit leading to his death..

Leaving me guessing that she doesnt like it..


I Have dated her for a few weeks and Wh00p has grown to liking her alot..

What should I do?
 
joepro

joepro

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cannabis use is a life style. Either give up what you are about or walk away.
drunks can't date someone who goes to AA meetings(or the otherway around)
this one small issue will one day come up and someone is gona get hurt.
Do the right thing and be honest, let the chips fall where they lay.(better now then later)
How could she ever love you, if she doesnt know you?
 
apotsmokinsniper

apotsmokinsniper

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yup i agree totally. you need to make a decision between the two. I think you should keep dating her and eventually bring it up in a conversation not that you do it but her perception of it. and if she isn't about it than you need to think if you really like her and if she is worth giving up weed. i wouldn't do it personally but thats just cuz im greedy,:mrgreen:
 
Dev

Dev

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I wouldn't got that far. I would suss her out. Tell her a story involving an old mate of yours smoking up or spin up some yarn. See what her reaction to it is. If it becomes clear it's either her or smoke. Make your decision then. Maybe she knows not all smokers move on to harder things.

EDIT: Didn't see the post above. Yeah what he said.
 
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kronicsmurf

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You could be honest with her but she could also try to make you choose:) I guess you need to decide which one you care for more! though there's a chance you could have you cake and eat it too:)
 
BongJuice

BongJuice

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If you met it her in the last few months, then it's none of her business.

Now if your PLANNING ON MAKING A COMMITMENT with her, then you owe it to her to make a decision to either accept you for who you are or to move on to someone else.
 
ToastedFox

ToastedFox

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If you plan on staying you need to find out what she thinks of you on it...


Reason why is I found most people like that Pot = Death.. No fixing it, but she could be different or understand its your only vice and you have no want for anything else.

For me pot is more then a vice, its my lifestyle and well I think its a gift from the heavens.
 
brontobrandon1

brontobrandon1

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shit my roommate has a girl in his room right now who dosent smoke and if only she new 10 feet below where shes laying my grow room is there:mrgreen:, but IMO tell her and see if she likes you for u and not that u smoke the great medicine.
 
Wh00p

Wh00p

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that will be the deal, if she doesnt like that i smoke reefer.. I havnt had a clear intention on what my next move would be, thanks guys :)
 
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phoenix.noir

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cannabis use is a life style. Either give up what you are about or walk away.
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i agree, it never works out with a guy for me if they drink a lot, as i had a problem and try to avoid it. and it never works out if they don't smoke weed, because the best part of my day (aside from taking little bowl hits all day) is packing a nice, fat bowl and watching some retarded cartoons. it's kinda the "they just don't get it" thing that turns me off... plus most people are incredibly boring to me, and especially boring if i'm not baked. ;)
 
Lacy

Lacy

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I do not like being with a man that drinks. I don't drink at all but I wouldn't mind if my man toked. It has this weird adverse affect on him that is REALLY strange so I can';t blame him
 
RedRooster

RedRooster

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I have that exact problem although Ive been dating my girlfriend for 3 years. I love her to bits but weed is apart of my life, i once (kinda) told her about MJ and she flipped. My point is dont think you can't have both worlds just because MJ pros say so. Iam planning to test this subject again soon.
 
Wh00p

Wh00p

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zeke knows all about that ;)


But still, Im not a drinker as much as i am a smoker, yes i have beer in the fridge, but do i drink it everday? nah..

and when i do drink i dont aim to get smashed, i like to get a buzz going not a full thrown nude streak through a old folks home..(another time another day ;) )

I like where i am at right now..

I like that im not going to die from liver failure or alcahol poisoning..

loung disease ftl..but newports and weed, only go so far for me :S
 
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reeffermadness

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I used to have a girlfriend a few years back who didn't smoke, in fact she hated it. I had to lie to her every time I would go out and get high, which caused many problems for me. I think its best that if you really enjoy smoking to find someone cool with it or participates in it.
 
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