Experiment.

Okay, so i planted about 4 white seeds in a large planting pot and left it outside. It's about 6 or 7 inches tall, but it doesn't have anything to show male/female or buds growing yet. It's about a month to a month and a half old. I'm pretty much broke so i can't do too much with it, but i've tried smoking a small leaf off of it and it's not too bad. I just need tips on getting it bigger and getting it to grow buds.
This is my first plant and i'm clueless.
I read and did my best.
And it was planted in potting soil.

Help?

how do u smoke leaf ?

You won't get anything useful to smoke until the plant starts flowering. I suggest you watch some grow videos so you can learn about female flowers and the whole grow cycle. you don't smoke the leaves you smoke the flowers. Jorge Cervantes has some great videos that might help you.

if your growing outdoors you wont be able to start flowering until the sun naturally goes on a 12 hours of light and 12 hours of dark phase. if you were growing indoors you would just switch your light cycle to 12 on 12 off after you are satisfied veggin ( the plant is big enough or however you want to measure your plants maturity you pick the guidlines indoors) and then it starts to show its sex and the females will continue to flower. after this flowering cycle then you can smoke the bud and get really high. the leaves and other parts of the plant are mostly made to extract the THC in some sort of hash or whatnot. i do not smoke them but to each their own.