FiRsT TiMe I NeEd HeLp !!!!!!!

This is the first time i have ever tried to grow. I have always wondered if i could actually do it. Anayway i started germination on May 21 and it sprout on june 1st, the seed is just typical bagseed probably mexican. i germinated it in a 5 gallon bucket filled with foxfarms oceanic soil outside under the bright sun. I will be posting pix in just a bit still working on that.
now for the questions i have

1. look at my pix and tell me if its male or female because i have no clue, i hve read probably thousands of post and looked at pix but i still cant tell

2. i havent used any type of nutes or ferts the whole time accept for what came mixed in the soil. and few times that i have taken a bucket and caught bird droppings from under a nest and mixed that in the soil " i know probably not smart" also i water regularly and once every two weeks i water with a crushed up birth controll pill "lol now im not sure why i have done this but i read somewhere to try it so i figured what the hell" but the question is will this effect my plant will i still have buds if it is indeed a female and info comment insults are welcome here i have tons more questions to ask but i will wait for a response to the first 2 thanx

if the pix work they are growth from june 4th to june 30th and one pic for figuring out the sex

Ya did pretty good..first off.

I can't tell the sex yet either. We've past the solstice though...so at some point this month I think you will start to see some action/will be able to tell.

I'd nixx the BC pills and give em to the wife... nyuk..nyuk...

ignore anyone who would give ya shit...

good luck

bt dt

and suggestions on what i should use for nutes or fert or is it too late to even start that?