There are some good guides on this forum already. You are aware that there is a "Drying and Curing" subforum, right?
Buds should be a bit crisp but with bendable stems when they go in the jars... open once or twice a day to air out, as needed... once a day taking the buds out and rearranging them in the jars... when you reload try to put them in so the ones that were on the inside are on the outside and vice versa. Each day you should notice that the buds have lost some of their crisp, as the moisture moves from stem to bud. Air out to prevent moisture build up in jars... if the buds seem like they are not crisping back up, I like to take all buds out and leave them out on a plate for about 10-15 minutes before doing the reload.
Then you just sort of taper down as necessary... it's sort of self-explanatory as you get a feel for what is crisp and what isn't... cut down to once a day, then to once every other day, then to once every few days... in accordance with their needs...
Again, there are guides in the Dry/Cure subforum for a more "guided" process that relies less on feeling/interpretation.. but in the long run, much like feeding nutes, you will be better off learning to assess the needs yourself rather than following a schedule.