i need some advice lol surprisenly not about growing

weedman013

weedman013

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im startin this relationship out with this pretty cool chick. she parties not to much which i like lol im 20 by they way its kind of odd for me bein 20 and dont like to party lol well anyways here name is deniease and she is 23 goin to collage and raising a three year old. she drinks once in awhile but not all that much which i like cause im a member of aa. well she doesnt know about my grow or even that i smoke weed idk about all this like should a tell her straight up that i smoke or should a wait awhile??
 
DudeLebowski

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weedman013 said:
im startin this relationship out with this pretty cool chick. she parties not to much which i like lol im 20 by they way its kind of odd for me bein 20 and dont like to party lol well anyways here name is deniease and she is 23 goin to collage and raising a three year old. she drinks once in awhile but not all that much which i like cause im a member of aa. well she doesnt know about my grow or even that i smoke weed idk about all this like should a tell her straight up that i smoke or should a wait awhile??
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i would wait until things are more secure. when you do get around to lettin her that far into your life be sure she wont use it against you and let her know that you were only trying to look out for yourself by not telling her.
 
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ugzkmk

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dont mention growing and tell her u smoke pot regularly next time u see her. if that fucks things up, ohwell, she was probably a stuck up bitch anyway. then again, anyone that can get blackout drunk and think nothing of it and condemn people that smoke are fucked up to begin with.

and under no circumstances do u tell her u grow.
 
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rado

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Bring it into casual conversation. Like, start up a conversation of what she likes to drink, and then be like, "Do you smoke pot or anything, too?" If she gives you a look like, "wtf.." than you know she's not too fond of it. If she says she does, be like, "Yeah, I've been thinking of growing my old stuff."

Don't just flat out say you grow. Kinda ease into it, see how she reacts each step. Eventually, if she's all for you saying you were thinking of growing, be like, "I actually have a couple plants.", but say it in what may seem like a kind of jokingly way, so she's still calm.
 
weedman013

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thank for your advice ppl im just nervis about her kid and all and if we really got into the good thing i would probley have to quit growing atleast but fuck i wouldnt want to buy any shit i rather grow it with my tomatoes lol im just afraid about the whole kid thing really my ex had a kid the same age and we smokedtogether but never thought about growing it
 
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pokesalotasmot

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Don't wait too long to tell her you smoke. She DOES need to know this about you, but don't rush telling her. Tell her within the next couple of times you see her. Like someone else said, mention it causually about tokin, or maybe see what she thinks about medical mj, see what she says. And def DON'T SAY ANYTHING ABOUT YOUR GROW.

Good luck man, get a piece for us :mrgreen: :blsmoke:
 
jahman2222

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Heres my 2 cents. If youve known her for awhile and you guys have hit it off and she likes your personality then you should tell her right away. But if you guys met not that long ago and you tell her, she might think your the typical stoner and she might not like that, so show her your not. So if youve known her for awhile tell her, if not then wait alittle.
 
weedman013

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jahman2222 said:
Heres my 2 cents. If youve known her for awhile and you guys have hit it off and she likes your personality then you should tell her right away. But if you guys met not that long ago and you tell her, she might think your the typical stoner and she might not like that, so show her your not. So if youve known her for awhile tell her, if not then wait alittle.
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well sry lol ive known her a lil les than a month but weve havent really started it yet you know she is a collage student a mother and has a job and all
 
Line276

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Just tell her and if she is cool she wont mind but dont let her know you grow that could bite you in the ass later if something goes wrong.
 
weedman013

weedman013

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Line276 said:
Just tell her and if she is cool she wont mind but dont let her know you grow that could bite you in the ass later if something goes wrong.
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thats the best advice someone can give i know MANY PPL that have got fucked over like that good lookin out :mrgreen:
 
Cannabolic

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ugzkmk said:
dont mention growing and tell her u smoke pot regularly next time u see her. if that fucks things up, ohwell, she was probably a stuck up bitch anyway. then again, anyone that can get blackout drunk and think nothing of it and condemn people that smoke are fucked up to begin with.

and under no circumstances do u tell her u grow.
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word!!!!!!!
 
weedman013

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Cannabolic said:
word!!!!!!!
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well heres an update i finally started talking to her about how i smoke weed. well anyways she said she rather be with a guy who smoked cigeretes lao which i do to but ive been hiding them. well anyways she also said that she has nothing really against it she tried it a couple of times and didnt like it and she didnt have a problem as long as i didnt bring it around her or her son which is understanible. any thoughts lol besides me trying to figure out a steal grow lmao!!!
 
aba

aba

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weedman013 said:
well heres an update i finally started talking to her about how i smoke weed. well anyways she said she rather be with a guy who smoked cigeretes lao which i do to but ive been hiding them. well anyways she also said that she has nothing really against it she tried it a couple of times and didnt like it and she didnt have a problem as long as i didnt bring it around her or her son which is understanible. any thoughts lol besides me trying to figure out a steal grow lmao!!!
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she didin't like it? what was she smoking? jk
I would just wait and see if things got more serious with both of yall cuz she doesn't have to know yet you know...
 
weedman013

weedman013

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yeah i understand hell though if it got more seirous i just figured i could use my spare bedrooms closest lmao!!! idk about that though its in the middle of my damn trailer lol
 
CanadianCoyote

CanadianCoyote

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I wouldn't tell her you grow for a WHILE. I'd even keep smoking on the down-low for a minute... but when youd o bring it up, just ask... "What are your opinions on weed?"...and let her talk for awhile. Always a winner. :D
 
NismoZ

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man you just need to go ahead and tell her you smoke, it doesnt matter if shes in college or has a kid, you just gotta be honest, i know thats corny, but it is true. Ive been in this situation before, this girl was a church girl who never smoked, drank, or anything... i mean she absolutely hated it, 3 months later she was begging me to roll her some blunts before i left the country for a couple of weeks :) honesty pays off but it stops at that....under NO circumstances should you let her know your growing, this could definitely come back and bite you in the ass! Worst she can do is get mad at you for smoking, but its only been a month so fuck it, if your growing you want a girl who smokes anyway.
 
dahamma

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First off do not tell her you grow. Second make sure you know what you are getting into (single mother). I'm not saying don't because I don't know you but .... I personally would not get involved with a lady with a kid, alot of extra headache, unless you feel like settling down which you might not at 20. just my 2 cents though
 
weedman013

weedman013

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dahamma said:
First off do not tell her you grow. Second make sure you know what you are getting into (single mother). I'm not saying don't because I don't know you but .... I personally would not get involved with a lady with a kid, alot of extra headache, unless you feel like settling down which you might not at 20. just my 2 cents though
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actually i am really i just got a very good job and dont even party lol im a member of aa i know just saying this is not the reason or even an excuse for settiling down but im ready for a long term relationship to all thanks for the posts and keep them coming lol i need all the advice i can get:hump:
 
dahamma

dahamma

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weedman013 said:
actually i am really i just got a very good job and dont even party lol im a member of aa i know just saying this is not the reason or even an excuse for settiling down but im ready for a long term relationship to all thanks for the posts and keep them coming lol i need all the advice i can get:hump:
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are you ready for the long term because you think.... or aa says you need a hobby to keep your mind off the juice. Do what you think is healthy not what some so called expert says.
 
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