pictures arnt great but if you look hard I think you see balls. if they are I have to kill the plant right (its hard to destroy something you have raised from a child)
yah, its a male.. if its your only plant, males make great plants to experiment on.. tie him up.. feed him tons of nuits.. try all the crazy shit you've always thought of doing but were afraid to kill your precious females.. go crazy on him.
if you have other plants in there though and your not planning on doing any breeding... kill the sucker..