I am reading that you have an air cooled hood. As the light is sealed, you don't need any filters or scrubbers on the tubes leading to and from the light as there is no mechanism for the smell to get into the light. Install the fan downstream of the light so air is
pulled through the light.
Now use your other fan to simply exhaust the hot air from inside the tent and out through the carbon filter. You need some way for the air to get in (and sure, a hepa filter on it would be nice).
You don't need an intake fan... ever. Air is like all matter in the universe.. If it leaves, something has to take its place. In fact, it CAN"T leave until something does take its place.
To control the fan your going to need a thermostat controller. You set the temp and the fan kicks on when its exceeded. Your looking at around $65-75 bucks for one made by CAP