You're absolutely correct and I'm banging my head on the wall now.I replied in a rush while I was at work lol.Lime will raise the pH to about 8, not lower it. His soil probably already has too much lime if the pH is actually too high.
how much vinegar did you use? one time i mixed some vinegar with a gallon of water and it utterly devastated my plants, the leaves started drooping and turning brown. Maybe I used to much, just a "splash" in the gallon. Another time I squeezed half a lemon into a gallon of tap water and the results were not much better...Vinegar is a quick, at home fix to lower your ph. I used that for my entire first ever grow and they came out awesome. Here's a pic of my first soil grow and hydro....both used vinegar to lower my faucet water ph.
BEWARE if you choose to PH your water with a synthetic substance you must flush properly every week to ensure that your synthetic PH isn't building up in the soil and causing problems for you.
http://www.amazon.com/General-Hydroponics-GH1514-Control-Kit/dp/B000BNKWZY/ref=pd_rhf_dp_p_d_1
but not sure how well that works for soil, and also I prefer to use organic stuff not synthetic.