parents

what are ur parents like, what did weed do to ur relationship wit them, have u guys noticed a change in the way they treat u since they knew u blazed.

I myself have ruined my relationship wit my parents, i dont know how to get it back and im unsure if i can, dad left to live somewhere else in same area when i was 8, left without even saying goodbye, visited alot up until i was bout early mid 14, i started hating him, refusing too see him or speak to him, i still dont even know why, might have had something to do with thats when i started blazin heavily and drinkin a lil bit evryday, i got kicked out of 4 primary schools and pretty much ruined my mothers career, did fairly well in secondry, went to a all boys which is now closed, no girls so we just studied lol, left at 16 to be a professional drug dealer and weed smoker, im 18 now bout to finish college and hopefully go uni, i think i last spoke to them like a week after my 17th birthday when they called and tryd to sing happy birthday, i hung up, still dont know why.

how bout u, has weed destroyed ur relationship, if there are any parents ere would u let ur kids blaze?

p.s, whats it like bein a parent?

Padawanbater2 said:

Weed has enhanced my relationship with my parents. I think it helps you understand another persons perspective a little better. It gave me some insight into how a parent thinks.

Sorry to hear about the problems you have with your folks, that sounds tough. But it also sounds like it could be fixed, as a lot of the reasons you acted the way you did you seem to be unsure of, or forgot about why you did whatever you did, meaning you won't really hold a grudge if you can't remember the problem.

I would let my kids smoke, but I'd constantly be on them about more important shit in their lives, and probably not until about 17 or 18 years old if it was in my house. Hopefully they'd respect that.

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what if they didnt, what if they blazed from when i started at like 11 or 12 or 13, what if they didnt respect you, lets be honest, if your kids are willing to blaze at 12 and dont care about there parents, they will prob end up fuckups ,i cant imagine what ive put my parents through, i get what your sayin bout the perspectives, when i was 15 and after a nice long night out i would come home, blaze a ting and think about the shit i did to get kicked out of those schools, i thought about what id done to my dad, my old friends who id hurt just because i could, im not ashamed to say it any more, i cryed, i thought that if others felt pain i would feel big, it hasnt worked and it seems the 1 whos in the most pain is me, funny how shit plays out, ive solved the problems wit my old friends and ive got my gcses and the bitch who kicked me out of my first school died lonely and miserably in some shitty old folks home next to a motorway, before i leave for uni im gonna patch up my shit wit my parents and ask for forgiveness for what ive done, if i have kids i think id rather know what they were doing and give them leeway rather than have them snoopin around.

Weed made the relation with my father but put my mom and I on the rocks a few times.

sounds good theres only going up from this good luck man i gone though this 2 man

It originally put a split between my parents and I, but it was because I was also acting like a d, once I showed them that it wasn't a negative aspect of my life they began to understand and accept it. But you should definitely try to patch things up, and I would guess that your parents would be so relieved and happy to have you back

It has been great for my relationship with my parents. I smoke withy my dad every now in then, listen to his stories about back in the day when he bought by the pound. My mom knows i smoke, we just don't talk about it. My parents are separated.

They didn't like it at first, then they grew into it, now pops and I joke about pot... on 4/20 he called with the cheesy joke:

"Hey man, I hear Rosette Stone is coming out with a new program to help learn pot lingo called, Rosetta Stoner"

He's cool, mom's cool, I could never treat my parents the way you did, UKGrower...

Especially hanging up on them as they tried singing you happy birthday, that was just cold and uncalled for

I would cry and crawl my way back to them if I were you, you owe them a lot, more than you'll ever understand.

my mom and dad was against it, dad is no longer with us sence 1992, and mom was still against it. she was down on me and my brother up tell 3 years ago . thats when she got her script. iits cool but yet fucked cuz of all the shit i got over it. i didn't start smoking weed tell i was out of school. i was 19 years old.

when i lived at home i was anightmare idk how my mom lived with me , needles to say i got kicked out at about 17, never been back (20 now) and my mom and i are best friends i actually get along with her wife now , who shes been with for 10 years i caused a lot of strain on their relationship and im glad they're still together
i love them both as for weed my mom and i toke together now

sunni said:

when i lived at home i was anightmare idk how my mom lived with me , needles to say i got kicked out at about 17, never been back (20 now) and my mom and i are best friends i actually get along with her wife now , who shes been with for 10 years i caused a lot of strain on their relationship and im glad they're still together
i love them both as for weed my mom and i toke together now

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your mums wife??? nice.....

My parents are in their late 60's, they adore my kids and spend all the time with them that they can.

My parents love my career (tattooing) and are happy that I am happy. My parents kept my clones alive when our place flooded. Cant ask for anything more, I am a lucky man.

westhamm1132 said:

your mums wife??? nice.....

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yeah haha , they're soo cute together she got my mom for their 10th year anni a huge like engagement ring its like a karot with a bunch of diamonds, was going to post the photo but i cant find it ,

Adolecence and hormones runined my relationship with my parents, weeds innocent!

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yeah haha , they're soo cute together she got my mom for their 10th year anni a huge like engagement ring its like a karot with a bunch of diamonds, was going to post the photo but i cant find it ,

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i would feel awlkward around them tho if that was my mum haha seeing them kiss n shit at least there happy tho better than bein straight and unhappy.

ukgrower just ring your mum up and say sorry if you need a excuse say you were depressed at that time in your life and have now got over it and want to put things right.
LMAO tho my mum did shit like that but not down the phone she would waight till im with my mates then sing it and would call me a junky and say i was gunna go nowhere in life smokein weed lol but didnt care to mutch i just put up with it tho its easy if you larth it off and say yh what ever than argue n shit cus that just makes things harder.

westhamm1132 said:

i would feel awlkward around them tho if that was my mum haha seeing them kiss n shit at least there happy tho better than bein straight and unhappy.

ukgrower just ring your mum up and say sorry if you need a excuse say you were depressed at that time in your life and have now got over it and want to put things right.
LMAO tho my mum did shit like that but not down the phone she would waight till im with my mates then sing it and would call me a junky and say i was gunna go nowhere in life smokein weed lol but didnt care to mutch i just put up with it tho its easy if you larth it off and say yh what ever than argue n shit cus that just makes things harder.

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i am, i am, im really busy at the mo, were movin the summer bricks, if your stayin in uk then theres gonna b alot of good weed about, go to eivr north west london, east london or north east london, thats where the piff is gonna be.i finally called my mum and tried to talk to her, turns out they still do care, they thought i had turned into 1a those crazy weed smokers like most of my friends, after the paronoia and mood swings and deadly munchees ive been through, ive decide to cut down on the blazin, me n my guys r gonna finish these big deals, split the cash equally, then go our separate ways, turns out only 2 out of 5 want to go uni, the other 3 lazy bastards say they wanna keep "grindin", from what i can see, theyl be in a looney bin within the next 2 years, for amlost 7 years ive loved mary jane to the point where she dominated my life my career and my future, im finally gonna be free, im not gonna pretend that ima completly quit, im still gonna blaze just not as much, now when i go to college i can actually pay attention, more girls r liking me coz i dont always look druggd up, my old friends are callin me to hang out and not just smoke weed, im still not cuttin my dreads, y does evry1 think that coz ive slowed down my relationship wit mary that my dreads r gonna go, and to west ham, my mum said that weed would fuck up my life too, difference between me and u is, it did, ive seen the happiness it can bring, but ive also seen how low it can take people, once uve seen what ive seen u know mary jane is in no way innocent, she can be used to relieve pain, or escape from the world around you, thanks to the new government weed might be a lil bit closer to decriminalisation in uk, if it does, me n my grower r gonna do our ting and leave these druggd up hoodrats behind, life has never seemed so promisin.

i know what you mean bout the weed dominateing your life its kinda like that for me still was worse most of my mates worlds revolve around weed still lookin forward to that nice weed isit gunna reach east ham? how big are u talkin about?

also i would say dont bother with uni if you have investment are u good at construction? try a houseing auction there on quite often you can get run down houses for very cheap if you know your shit you can fix it up by yourself and makea killing per house thats what i wanna do anyway but carnt afford 40k right now haha.

yo, i been fuckin with weed since i was 16, well younger, but i didnt get "into it" into it until 16-17.
i started buying ounces at 18 and sold what i could so i could smoke for free.
soon after it went to QPs, then pounds. all in my moms house.
it was actually a blessing in disguise when she snooped in my room and found a pound in my closet.
she told me i needed to stop.
i told her i would just move out.
so i did and ive been doing this since.

now i'm honest with my parents. i dont lie about anything.
they always ask when i'm gettina real job and shit like this.
but thats just parents doing what they need to.
i told her i'm not gonna be some bum on streets, and that i'm not gonna sit at a fast food place or some job i dislike cleaning people bathroom moppin floors and making minimum wage and being unhappy.
i always appreciate the advice they give tho.
i know they want whats best for me.

ive never smoke around them and i try not to be high around them.
although it wouldnt be a problem, i just do it out of respect.

westhamm1132 said:

i know what you mean bout the weed dominateing your life its kinda like that for me still was worse most of my mates worlds revolve around weed still lookin forward to that nice weed isit gunna reach east ham? how big are u talkin about?

also i would say dont bother with uni if you have investment are u good at construction? try a houseing auction there on quite often you can get run down houses for very cheap if you know your shit you can fix it up by yourself and makea killing per house thats what i wanna do anyway but carnt afford 40k right now haha.

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some of it might reach east ham, im not sure on the specifics, but i know its some of our really big deals, 20 - 30 kgs, took months for us to grow this shit, i want to go uni not for the good job, i always just wanted to go, i grew up in stow so my parents kudnt afford it, now i can pay all my fees upfront lol

ImTheFireMan said:

yo, i been fuckin with weed since i was 16, well younger, but i didnt get "into it" into it until 16-17.
i started buying ounces at 18 and sold what i could so i could smoke for free.
soon after it went to QPs, then pounds. all in my moms house.
it was actually a blessing in disguise when she snooped in my room and found a pound in my closet.
she told me i needed to stop.
i told her i would just move out.
so i did and ive been doing this since.

now i'm honest with my parents. i dont lie about anything.
they always ask when i'm gettina real job and shit like this.
but thats just parents doing what they need to.
i told her i'm not gonna be some bum on streets, and that i'm not gonna sit at a fast food place or some job i dislike cleaning people bathroom moppin floors and making minimum wage and being unhappy.
i always appreciate the advice they give tho.
i know they want whats best for me.

ive never smoke around them and i try not to be high around them.
although it wouldnt be a problem, i just do it out of respect.

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ever smoke a whole key of super skunk to urself in 2 months,if u have then ur on my level.