If my math is correct, and you flower at 18'' in a 6 ft room, you will be more than in the clear.. 3x is quite a growth spurt, u growing some real sativa's eh? (pun not intended).. even if they do stretch, you have lots of room to tie down so they dont burn..
size should not be a restraint for your grow at all.. and imo, 400W is adequate lighting for 3 plants