i have too plant showing both signs of female and male flower but they are putting off the same amount of bud so I don't really know what to do with them....any suggestion or help would be greatly appreciated
Looks like a hermie to me. Those pollen sacks will open and give you seeds. But they will be feminized if you use them next year...Ive used a buddies hermie seeds for a while now and every one has grown into a female with no hermies...something to consider.
*and if you don't want seeds,but want to keep the plants try and pluck off the pollen sacks/flowers as soon as they start to dangle.