yep, Angryblackman hit the nail on the head, he's real, (not like little bitches runnin' their mouths) COMMUNICATION has to be there, dont even think of playing with another couple if your shit ain't wired tight, cause it will unravel at the absolute worst time. Me and the wife have been swinging off and on for about 9 years, like he said TALK about EVERYTHING and any imagineable scenario, and it is kind of weird the first time you're in the same room with another dude with a boner ha ha. Try to get to know the other couple as well as you think you can, this might head off potential mis-matches, i.e: they're into gang-bangs and golden showers and you're into soft swinging only... as I read somewhere else on the net and kind of live by it now...Dive deep and fear nothing. And there are few sensations better than pulling down a strange girls panties.