what do girls think of loners?

just something that came across my mind but i'm always more curious than cautious. i've known all sorts of loners but i brought this up cause most days when i don't see my pals i am one (not a 100% one just the shy "laid back" type).

Girls don't have one collective hive-mind. Different ones will think different things.

i'm actually curious about this too

My overall experience has been this: If you don't talk to them, they won't talk to you.

JayDubya said:

My overall experience has been this: If you don't talk to them, they won't talk to you.

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Same experience

I third that one.

Women tend to like guys who are sociable. When someone comes off as a loner people will also usually sense you as unfriendly, awkward, or just a plain dickead.

I used to be a loner, because I felt like other people were stupid, or somehow inferior. You may think the same things, but that is called rationalizing.

Haha, Louis you sound just like me... the "people are annoying and stupid" part. Mainly because most of my friends don't smoke and look at me condescendingly whenever I'm around them. They feel it's necessary to tell me that because I smoke, I will become worthless. So I think my feelings towards most are justified.

Some girls like a guy who's sort of a homebody and some won't. Don't come across like a recluse or weirdo or dickhead as someone else said though.

You just have to play your cards right, whether you know it or not. I'm not a loner, but I'm definitely not the one you see hollerin at all the girls. I've had success with the"shy, laid back" gameplan. You just can't act scared of the pussy, that's all. And know how to make conversation to keep from being awkward. But some girls need you to give them attention, otherwise they won't bother with you.

Devin the Dude said it best "I don't chase bitches, bitches chase me. I don't need to chase a hoe, nooo noooo."

JayDubya said:

My overall experience has been this: If you don't talk to them, they won't talk to you.

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Things were kinda different for me. I've always been quiet, and kind of a loner. In high school my nick name was even "mute". I never really had a problem getting girls though, maybe they just wanted to know why I was so quiet?

i work along the lines if i don't talk to them then they're not going to talk to me. fucking snakes with tits and nothing more i'd rather keep to myself thanks

tip top toker said:

i work along the lines if i don't talk to them then they're not going to talk to me. fucking snakes with tits and nothing more i'd rather keep to myself thanks

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doesn't your arm get tired?

hamanu23 said:

doesn't your arm get tired?

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Either that or he wakes up with sticky sheets.

What a lonely existence though, damn...

tip top toker said:

i work along the lines if i don't talk to them then they're not going to talk to me. fucking snakes with tits and nothing more i'd rather keep to myself thanks

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i am married now. but i used to keep to myself and be difficult to aproach.
keeps stupid bubble-head girls away. snakes with tits is a good desription for a lot of girls.
not all of them are, though. the best girls realize that most girls are annoying, shallow, narcicistic
and mean; they respond to loners because loners aren't tangled up with stupid fuckers and users.
awesome chicks are hard to find.

ha, i live completely alone. i've maybe one frined i sometimes see. i don't even answer the phone to my parents, and especially not to my siblings.

tip top toker said:

ha, i live completely alone. i've maybe one frined i sometimes see. i don't even answer the phone to my parents, and especially not to my siblings.

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Ladies and Gentle.... meet Mr. Scroog

jk man... i respect that

haha, what can i say, you caught me. i'm actually the most generous caring and loving person around, or rather was, life has turned me into a non-trusting bastard i am a lot happier doing things alone than with company (bring out the immature comments haha).

I'll be blunt, since you asked a very blunt question, and hopefully appreciate an honest reply!

LONERS ARE LOSERS. They sit at home and play video games and masturbate to night elves in World of Warcraft. That's the general though anyway, hopefully this isnt you! Women like men who can actually carry a conversation. That doesnt mean talk a lot, it just means be open, honest, communicative, and not such a turtle shelled limp dick.

GIRLS LIKE MEN WHO HAVE BALLS. Loners generally dont have any balls, they never take control, they never have much initiative, etc....> Plus, if your always alone, how would that leave a woman for her time? Always having to have the guy hanging around going "bebe, ima so bored, plz blow me or do sumtin wit me", or having a guy who has a few hot friends.................... Hmmmmmmm.

Shorter reply than anticipated, a friend just knocked on my door, but this is the general idea!

tip top toker said:

ha, i live completely alone. i've maybe one frined i sometimes see. i don't even answer the phone to my parents, and especially not to my siblings.

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now thats a serious problem. but its understanble if your parents and siblings are child molesting maniacs. but dont u have like a pet or something. i like my alone time, which is often, but i wouldnt be able to be alone constantly if i can help it.

and as for the o.p. if you want the girl of your dreams, whether thats sci-fi nerdy type, bobblehead cheerleader type, emo type, w\e...it takes a certain degree of CONFIDENCE. girls sense confidence. but theres a fine line between confidence, and just plain cockieness. the cockyness is just as bad as being unconfident in their eyes. be natural and clever, you dont even have to try to be funny, girls laugh at all kinds of things that you wouldnt think was funny. keep the conversation flowing, but not tweaked-out spastic. and don't be afraid of awkward silences, its a sign of enjoying each others company without the need of words. which is great by the way.

i could go on and on, but CONFIDENCE is the key. you can be a loner with confidence. once girls really start having feelings for you they don't care if your a loner or a stoner or a lonely stoner or a stoned loner.

haha, i'm niether of those. i am active out and about cheerful you name it, i just prefere to be on my own. i cna happily melt into a group of people, spend a day messing about with folk in the sunshine, but i don't find any massive appeak to it when i could be doing my own productive stuff hassle free. i see having friends a means to kill time and little more. i rarely need to kill time, i've forever something i need to be doing and such. but as i say, i never used to be like this really, jsut the past 5 years

and if my parents call, i know that nothing said in the conversation will be of use to me or make any difference if it is or isn't said. so i say sod it chances are it's a pointless phone call. if my twin or my older brother calls, it's just plain fact that it'll be a waste of my time. they're not phoning to sortout a business deal or such, they're phoneing for pointless chat, which is a waste of my time.