we should make a club. i'll be happily divorced in a few weeks. wife got pregnant, i didn't participate (yeah, not mine, still tried to make it work). she cleared out over 15k when she left, took my little girl, and left me with a permanent scar (on the face).
i wish her all she ever wanted. i've been setting up a trust for my daughter, that exie can't touch. sucks, and i can't afford to fight for visitation (trust me when i say the wife's done everything possible to bar me). but i'll always be a phone call away, and will always make sure my baby is provided for.