It's all about how you perceive the question.
If you perceive it as a contest, and if your personal value system is about "biggest" and "most," but disregards other factors those who prefer soil actually care about, then you'll think "hydro is best."
if you perceive it as a Comparison, then it's not necessarily a competition at all.
You hydro zealots are very competitive, i see.
There is no requirement of insults here, but plenty of animosity has been injected by people representing hydro, as if you somehow perceive a threat from anyone giving explanations of why they chose/prefer soil.
Our values and assessment criteria are fundamentally different and not entirely compatible, and you zealots react to that with insults and belittling.
I wonder... chicken vs egg... which came first: the hydro or the bad attitude?
Is a hydro choice the result of bad attitude? Or is bad attitude the result of hydro choice?
Do you hate nature because hydro, or did you choose hydro because you hate nature?
"not sure if..."
But again, i'm not trying to tell anyone they're "wrong" to use hydro... but some hydro zealots are trying to make me feel bad about my choice, attacking my character due to offering an explanation of my views and reasoning behind my choice (which is not based on the same criteria used by those who evidently think it's a competition) which i think is a more important factor than choice of method.
On the other hand... our world is irreparably polluted and contaminated already, so maybe most of the reasons i prefer soil, are actually moot. And really, the whole debate is moot, because superiority isn't what matters; satisfaction is. If my choice satisfies me, what's it to you? Expressing my soil preference has apparently somehow offended the hydro zealots. I don't think i can understand that, and i'm not even sure i want to. It would be much easier for me to simply disregard people, instead of trying to convince them to acknowledge what they prefer to disregard... which is true in far more areas than "soil vs hydro."