Thank you so much for the feedback
What other signs should I be looking for? I'm in no rush as I'm trying to get the best out of my little girl on my first attempt ... Her smell has changed completely... At first she was really fruity smelling and now I think her true smells are coming in and all of her calyx seem swollen ... I also noticed the white pistols But read somewhere that new ones are always growing (could be confusing it with the trichomes or might be wrong all together haha) do you think the cbn will turn her into lazier high... I took a nug just over a week ago and I loved the effects I was getting of coarse the taste was off and the trichs were mostly clear at that point but I wasn't disappointed
The trichomes are by far the best indicator. Allowing that sativa to amber a bit, say 10-20%, will still give you an "up" high, it just won't be so racy. But just as important, more of those pistols will turn orange and the calyxes will swell further; I've seen the pics of your plant and while it looks lovely, it still has much potentinal to swell, pack on weight and become dense(r). Just give it a couple more weeks.
Here's what breeder TGA Subcool advocates in regard to harvesting (and I tend to agree):
"1. Fully formed but still clear will provide a cleaner ‘up’ high with less sedative effect; this is the best window for heavy Indicas.
2. Fully formed and turning slightly cloudy or milky; this is probably the best time to pick most hybrids available today.
3. Fully formed completely cloudy or milky with at least thirty percent of the heads turning amber; this is usually best window for the late maturing Sativa’s such as Haze. This is also a good window when using the plant primarily for Hash production.
With the Sativa dominant hybrids you want to make sure that all the trichome heads are fully formed and also about thirty percent amber. Letting a plant mature beyond this will risk flavor as well, the finished smoke may be harsh with very little “high”."
Bottom line: Give that plant just a little more time, aiming for at least 10% amber.