NewGrowth
Well-Known Member
You seem to have a pretty broken relationship matthew. It sounds like you both need to really sit down and talk. Maybe a counselor would help but you have to ask yourself what your marriage is worth to you I suppose. I personally am not cool with snooping at all, I don't do it. My ex did some snooping with me and I let her know very clearly that I was not cool with it. I was happy to be honest and answer her questions, even show her things if she asked but not behind my back. I really would try a counselor though they really can help. I hope it all works out for you bro best of luck. 
. I told her of course I did but a lot was going to have to change after she got out of school or I was gone. I told her I was going to start being my own man and doing what I want to do, of course she brought up pot. I told her I am a grown man and if I want to smoke its my prerogative. She told me that for her that was a deal breaker, she couldn't be with a pot smoker, I just said "sorry". The she turned it all on me saying that I was picking pot over her, I told her I was picking being a man over being dominated, she can take it or leave it (of course if she leaves it the gravy train comes to a screeching halt). So if I have the extra cash I am going to grab an O this weekend and might just smoke it in front of her. Afterall she works till 10 tonight, works all day during the day tomorrow, then is going out with her girlfriends that night. Honestly I could buy it, smoke 1/4 of it and she would never know it.
