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lokie

lokie

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Paul Drake said:
Google donations at the local colleges. I’m not sure but I’ve seen one, hers.

I did it in advance so as not to add anything else to her problems at the time of my passing.

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Laughing Grass said:
Smart move. It's an industry of jackals preying on emotionality vulnerable people.
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There is always another expense.
My mother in law and some other of my relatives thought they had a all inclusive package deal.

In my MIL case my wife said there was additional fees not taken into consideration, garve opening, pallbearers if needed,
seating and canopy if requested at the site etc...

The added fees came to another 2K and her headstone still does not have the dates on it. Yes there is and added fee to carve the dates on the headstone.>:(
 
Paul Drake

Paul Drake

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lokie said:
There is always another expense.
My mother in law and some other of my relatives thought they had a all inclusive package deal.

In my MIL case my wife said there was additional fees not taken into consideration, garve opening, pallbearers if needed,
seating and canopy if requested at the site etc...

The added fees came to another 2K and her headstone still does not have the dates on it. Yes there is and added fee to carve the dates on the headstone.>:(
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The Neptune society.
 
curious2garden

curious2garden

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Rsawr said:
Yeah, neither of us could understand why I would want to sit around with her family after she died. Funerals are weird and awkward. Who are they for?
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They were/are a catharsis for the living. Same with ceremonies marking significant life changes. Our culture is changing dramatically. I believe it's from moving much of our socialization to the internet, but that's speculation and observation not research. The old ways have found other avenues of observation in the new social milieu.
 
Rsawr

Rsawr

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curious2garden said:
They were/are a catharsis for the living. Same with ceremonies marking significant life changes. Our culture is changing dramatically. I believe it's from moving much of our socialization to the internet, but that's speculation and observation not research. The old ways have found other avenues of observation in the new social milieu.
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I suppose so. I don't really get on with her family, so without her it would have been me sitting there sad surrounded by strangers and very bad people. She was an old person, and not like my generation at all. She resisted the internet, lol
 
Paul Drake

Paul Drake

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Jeffislovinlife said:
By my will only lol damn looks like my wife'smorning breakfast and I think they want to give 3 or 4 I've a doctor who every time I go they try and get me to take some f*ing pain pills or muscle relaxer and then they realize who they are talking to
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Why can’t you take them? If you don’t mind my asking.
I never took pain pills because I knew I was really going to need them at this age for osteoarthritis anyway. Didn’t count on getting every kind of arthritis you can get.
I’m a klonopin user since probably the age of 16 and thank God those still work!
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manfredo

manfredo

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Paul Drake said:
Why can’t you take them? If you don’t mind my asking.
I never took pain pills because I knew I was really going to need them at this age for osteoarthritis anyway. Didn’t count on getting every kind of arthritis you can get.
I’m a klonopin user since probably the age of 16 and thank God those still work!
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An old friend said " we are all mentally ill, just some of us deal with it better".
 
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