kick her to the curb?

Sunnysideup

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This is why you don't mix money with your relationships. It should be what is her's is her's and what is his is his....I have been married 19 years and my husband has never given me an 'allowance' that was the type of stuff that went on during my parents era, not mine.

Cut her off of your money. She needs to get a job.
 

Biggravy22

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I can't understand why you'd toss her 500 a week. Are you trying to condition this chick to love your wallet? I mean seriously...whether you're planning to marry her or not...all you're doing is making her accustomed to a lifestyle she couldn't provide for herself.

Do this...cut it down to 250 and see how she reacts. Then you'll have your answer.
 

Biggravy22

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This is why you don't mix money with your relationships. It should be what is her's is her's and what is his is his....I have been married 19 years and my husband has never given me an 'allowance' that was the type of stuff that went on during my parents era, not mine.

Cut her off of your money. She needs to get a job.

I feel you on that. I've given my wife money a couple times, but she would never ask nor come to expect it. You know as well as I, if he stopped giving her money she'd leave his ass in a heartbeat.
 

Sunnysideup

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I feel you on that. I've given my wife money a couple times, but she would never ask nor come to expect it. You know as well as I, if he stopped giving her money she'd leave his ass in a heartbeat.
Oh hell yeah. For that kind of money he could go and hire a chick to live in his house and eat his food and whatever else. It is like paying her to stay around. Screw that. I don't mind helping anyone out, but, they have to want to better themselves. She is now dictating what he can and cannot do....My only response to her would be "Next..."
 

Biggravy22

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Oh hell yeah. For that kind of money he could go and hire a chick to live in his house and eat his food and whatever else. It is like paying her to stay around. Screw that. I don't mind helping anyone out, but, they have to want to better themselves. She is now dictating what he can and cannot do....My only response to her would be "Next..."
Lol...Sunny much like my wife I think you were a dude in your past life. Don't take taht the wrong way...that just sounds like something a guy would say.
 

WhatAmIDoing

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Seems like you got all the advice you need dude. ...$500 bucks a week IS a god damned job. especially if you don't pay rent, utilities, food, car, gas, or anything else.
 

Sunnysideup

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Lol...Sunny much like my wife I think you were a dude in your past life. Don't take taht the wrong way...that just sounds like something a guy would say.
Lol, I think it is because I am the only female in this house. I am influenced from the men in the house.:-P
 

misshestermoffitt

New Member
My hubby and I don't have my money and his money, it's the money. We've just always shared everything.

What's mine is mine and what's his is mine......:wink:

Works great, now that the kids are grown I get to be a kept woman.
 

rezo

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why are you paying her 500 a week dude? what kind of crazy desperate shit is that.? you shouldnt even post a thread like this ... thats horrible dude. i thought love was free and a relationship is a mutual thing . since you guys arent married sheis simply a live in whore. YOU PAY FOR YOUR PUSSY>>>>>>>>>>>>>no no my friend you must get some free pussy and tell your prostitute to take a hike or go sell that ass and bring you the money cause right now you r the trick.
 

bluntking420

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, ya well i decided i cant do it anymore and im over it and done, by tthe way just so some people are clear i didnt just stat giving her money to be with me.... Only started to give her money not long ago, Like i said i created my own Monster but thx for all the advice lol
 

DaGambler

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so that 500 a week is once again up for grabs ?!

...did i mention i look very feminine in lipstick ? ...i could buy a wig...

:hump:
 

Ramen Shaman

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Gambler, if you post pics of yourself fully crossdressed, I will give you a cookie. I will mail it to you. Pretty, pretty please, dude. LOL.
 

theMONSTER

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if i were you id make her earn the money, by...welll...ehhh.....playing "rodeo" with you. Ifs shes not in the mood, then tell her nope, this is fer a really really really really really really really really really really good quarter........one hitter killer quiter shit.................................saddle up
 

xmissxaliex

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why are you paying her 500 a week dude? what kind of crazy desperate shit is that.? you shouldnt even post a thread like this ... thats horrible dude. i thought love was free and a relationship is a mutual thing . since you guys arent married sheis simply a live in whore. YOU PAY FOR YOUR PUSSY>>>>>>>>>>>>>no no my friend you must get some free pussy and tell your prostitute to take a hike or go sell that ass and bring you the money cause right now you r the trick.

XD
:clap:

, ya well i decided i cant do it anymore and im over it and done, by tthe way just so some people are clear i didnt just stat giving her money to be with me.... Only started to give her money not long ago, Like i said i created my own Monster but thx for all the advice lol

Well i'm glad ^^ how you gonna approach her though?
 
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