I'm intrigued why is it that I shouldn't give so freely is it because women are inherently attracted to assholes or will they take advantage of it? also what did you mean by "Oh, and the romantic thing, keep it sporadic."?
It's not assholes. So, if you don't give freely this makes you an asshole? lol.
If you give too much to anybody they will take advantage... it's human nature.
Romance is better served when it is an unusual occurrence. Men are naturally not romantic, the ones that claim to be are trying too hard, and this is unattractive to women. Men are naturally more powerful than women and this is the BASIS of attraction.
You don't need to TRY to do anything. Just be yourself, and you will be loved and respected.