Straight, Bi, or Gay?

[avengedsevenfold]

Stoney, how come an anti-gay person says they don't agree with homosexuality that you pro-gay people have to say that we must be 11? I mean come on, can't you pro-gay people come up with any better comebacks?

Anyways, no need for argument when i'm about to light up and drink some beer.

You're entitled to your opinion, and i'm entitled to my own. All I ask is that everybody comes to their very OWN opinions and views and think for themselves. Peace.

 

[Stoney McFried]

No, you're the one who started the whole, "what, is the original poster 10?"thing.I just responded in kind.Of course you're entitled to your opinion.But you don't have to come across as a complete ass to make it known, right?

Stoney, how come an anti-gay person says they don't agree with homosexuality that you pro-gay people have to say that we must be 11? I mean come on, can't you pro-gay people come up with any better comebacks?

Anyways, no need for argument when i'm about to light up and drink some beer.

You're entitled to your opinion, and i'm entitled to my own. All I ask is that everybody comes to their very OWN opinions and views and think for themselves. Peace.

 

[CanadianCoyote]

Sometimes, the fun for those guys is seeing how badly they can piss people off...

 

[budsmoker87]

my opinion-

if a guy is sexually turned on by a woman only (achieves an erection/becomes sexually aroused) he's straight

if a guy is sexually turned on by both, he's bi

i've heard 2 girls, one claim herself bi and one lesbian, that theyre more sexually attracted to guys but experience deeper intmacy w/girls

i dont really get that sometimes. I keep it simple lol. but o well

 

[Jimmy Luffnan]

Interesting thread....lol

First of all Id like to say.... I have nothing against homosexuals.

If you have an sexual and emotional attraction to the same sex... and not the opposite... then follow what you feel is right.

It is a wonderful thing that in today's day and age that a person can actually 'come out' about their sexuality and be comfortable than in the past when it was taboo and forbidden... and the person would go through their lives secretly living a lie and just doing 'whats normal'... so if its how you feel deep down and your not hurting anybody... then be open that you are gay

But...

Bisexuality makes no sense to me...
In my eyes, what makes you a homosexual is you chemical impulses or how you have been manipulated (how you have been raised) will decide why you feel what you do....

Being Bisexual to me is not 'chemical' but choice... for how can you biologically be attracted to both sexes?

It would seem that in a way.. you simply cant make you mind up... or somehow want the best of both worlds?

Being in today's sexuality and freedom to express sexuality is a double edged sword.... on one hand it gives people who have different sexual fantasies or preference a chance to explore without ridicule.... but at the same time... with the help of the media no doubt... really confuses alot of young people about their sexualities..... thus where I think Bisexuality begins to thrive.... and is simply a confusion of mind as to what your natural impulses are telling you....

Be gay, be straight.... but if you are Bi... then you need to have a good think about who you really are when it comes to sexuality... imo

 

[toyxrazor]

I think that doesn't make them bi or gay. "Pansexual" is commonly deemed as Bisexual because the person will find themselves attracted to both men and women... {The diff. between bi's and pansexuals= Bi:likes the woman/man because they're a woman/man/ Pansexual:likes the person regardless of the penis or lack of.}

Also, just because you got it on with another of the samesex, doesn't mean you're not heterosexual.

{Example: you're stoned off yer ass and sittin' around with your bestfriend (samesex) and you're horny. So you get it on.} Does sex automatically make you gay? Nyuuuu...

If you made a habbit of it, say dating multiple people of the same sex, then I think that would make you either pansexual or bisexual.

{Holy sheet... I make little to no sense when stoned...} Oh well xDD

 

[Stoney McFried]

Interesting answer.However, I've never been stoned enough to do a swan dive into a bearded clam.Maybe I'm smoking the wrong shit,lol.

I think that doesn't make them bi or gay. "Pansexual" is commonly deemed as Bisexual because the person will find themselves attracted to both men and women... {The diff. between bi's and pansexuals= Bi:likes the woman/man because they're a woman/man/ Pansexual:likes the person regardless of the penis or lack of.}

Also, just because you got it on with another of the samesex, doesn't mean you're not heterosexual.

{Example: you're stoned off yer ass and sittin' around with your bestfriend (samesex) and you're horny. So you get it on.} Does sex automatically make you gay? Nyuuuu...

If you made a habbit of it, say dating multiple people of the same sex, then I think that would make you either pansexual or bisexual.

{Holy sheet... I make little to no sense when stoned...} Oh well xDD

 

[CanadianCoyote]

... I have.

But I've never been so high/drunk that I've found compelled to (pardon the pun) manhandle a dick in front of me.

 

[Stoney McFried]

Oh, I have, lol.

... I have.

But I've never been so high/drunk that I've found compelled to (pardon the pun) manhandle a dick in front of me.

 

[toyxrazor]

It's all about the pr0n...
>:] the Bondage* pr0n.

muahahaha! [+off to "take my own advice"+]

"here, kitty kitty..."

xD

Interesting answer.However, I've never been stoned enough to do a swan dive into a bearded clam.Maybe I'm smoking the wrong shit,lol.

 

[Stoney McFried]

Uh,oh, someone's legs are about to be made into a necklace.

It's all about the pr0n...
>:] the Bondage* pr0n.

muahahaha! [+off to "take my own advice"+]

"here, kitty kitty..."

xD

 

[Captn]

Uh,oh, someone's legs are about to be made into a necklace.

So what about a guy who mostly likes guys, but occasionally hooks up with women. When the subject of my own sexuality comes up, I identify as gay. When my friends bring up the women I've been with, I concede that I'm technically bisexual. Sometimes I meet women I'm attracted to. I never really persue women, but A LOT of women flirt with me. Because flirting is fun (and I'm good at it, lol) I flirt back, which occasionally leads to more than flirting. Thats usually how it happens. For the record, I'm always upfront with women about my sexuality, and I try to make them understand its not going to go anywhere. I just couldn't be with a woman "full time". You were right in you're earlier post Stoney, you really can't compete, lol.

 

[cream8]

if women think your gay its non threatening and they let there guard down...soon as that happens.....gotcha bitch! pretty much a pick up tactic learned from that devil book the game

 

[Captn]

These are generally women who don't know me, and don't know I'm gay. And people, especially straight people, rarely guess that I'm gay. They're usually surprised, and usually think I'm kidding at first. Gay people have gadar, so they know sometimes.

 

[cream8]

peace respect

 

[Stoney McFried]

Uh, what did I say earlier?Aerobics instructor,lol.

So what about a guy who mostly likes guys, but occasionally hooks up with women. When the subject of my own sexuality comes up, I identify as gay. When my friends bring up the women I've been with, I concede that I'm technically bisexual. Sometimes I meet women I'm attracted to. I never really persue women, but A LOT of women flirt with me. Because flirting is fun (and I'm good at it, lol) I flirt back, which occasionally leads to more than flirting. Thats usually how it happens. For the record, I'm always upfront with women about my sexuality, and I try to make them understand its not going to go anywhere. I just couldn't be with a woman "full time". You were right in you're earlier post Stoney, you really can't compete, lol.

 

[topknot]

man, too many rules to being straight. and i dont know about you, but i despise rules.

 

[dregs]

I am an openly gay man and have been with my partner for going on 16 years. We are happy and comfortable with who we are. But with saying that I would like to make some points.

Back in the old days, I would have given ANYTHING to be straight and to just have a family. I am in my thirties now and long for children of my own but the process of adoption is expensive and lengthly and so isn't some sort of surrogate. I am lucky that I live in a very progressive state and my rights have been looked out for and a few years ago we were able to marry.

On the subject of Marriage, I was not all that big on the term "marriage", if the neo-cons want that term to themselves then so be it, but then EVERYONE should have a civil union and if you want a binding in the eyes of the church then you goto a church and get "Married". But anyone who things that civil unions are "Good Enough" really should put on some reading glasses and do some research. In many cases until recently civil unions fell down in a LOT of places, like visitation rights at hospitals, healthcare, maturtinity leave for spouses, Will disputes, etc. If this is all corrected I am ok with the term Civil union.

As far as the OP, I think I agree with what someone else said, Everyone is on a sliding scale and fit some where in the middle. Its not all black or white, we are all varying shades of grey.

I respect anyone who is willing to come out on this type of board and proclaim and openly talk about this subject with any kind of civil tongue. Open discussion is the core of the progressive movement. +rep to the OP for having a pair (or not in this case )

-D

 

[CanadianCoyote]

Back in the old days, I would have given ANYTHING to be straight and to just have a family.

-D

A few years ago, this was my state of mind. I didn't wanna be gay... I wanted to be 'normal', and I figured I could make myself be normal if I tried hard enough. I learned the hard way that... I couldn't. For awhile I was consumed with guilt and a sense of failure, and it was really quite recently (within the last 2-3 years) that I've come accept myself and my homosexuality.

... My point is I know that feeling.

 

[starsailor]

I am gay.

Sometimes, if the opportunity arises I have sex with women.

I am still gay though.

I did the bisexual thing for a while, but ultimately I am still gay. Went with a woman about 3 months ago. Was fabulous, just as I remember.

Still gay though and very happy about it.