my first girlfriend got mad because she didn't smoke and she thought i was choosing it over her. i spent most of my time around her sober and would wait for her to fall asleep before i toked, but if i was already high and she wanted to do something she felt that she was out of luck. i would have gladly spent time with her, she just didn't really approve.
she eventually put me against the wall and although she didn't outright say it, the choice was clear. to me, this is no choice at all (like a woman could actually change the way i think about drug use) which sucked because i really loved her. but i'd rather be strong enough to stand up for my beliefs instead of caving just to get my dick wet.
what made things worse is that after we broke up she had some time to think and review her position on pot, AND NOW SHE SMOKES TOO. fucking bitch.
Justin, you're lucky your girl turned faster than my ex. to me, there's nothing finer than enjoying a nice fat chronic stick with your other.