Guys. Being friends with a woman?

[ganji11]

I'd like to know how you guys feel about this. Say theres a woman you're very attracted to, but she considers you 'her best guy friend.' Im in this situation right now, and it bugs the hell out of me. Like me personally, I prefer guys as friends. The only time Im okay with being just friends with a girl, is if like my best friend is dating her. I believe that if you let a girl put you in that 'friend' catagory, then its over as far as ever becoming lovers. And theres nothing worse than listening to a girl tell you about the guys that are playing her or whatever problems she is having. Do you guys think its worth it? Or would you just move on and not make the same mistake with the next girl?

 

[cloned]

I'd like to know how you guys feel about this. Say theres a woman you're very attracted to, but she considers you 'her best guy friend.' Im in this situation right now, and it bugs the hell out of me. Like me personally, I prefer guys as friends. The only time Im okay with being just friends with a girl, is if like my best friend is dating her. I believe that if you let a girl put you in that 'friend' catagory, then its over as far as ever becoming lovers. And theres nothing worse than listening to a girl tell you about the guys that are playing her or whatever problems she is having. Do you guys think its worth it? Or would you just move on and not make the same mistake with the next girl?

tell her how you feel. she'll never know unless you speak up.

 

[acidbox420]

it sounds like this girl kinda annoys you lol so i say if that's how it is she's just a headach and honestly if u start paying this girl less attention she might smoke you'r pole so you pay her some attention

 

[ganji11]

I've told her countless times. Theres been times when she tells me she has feelings for me, but nothing ever comes of it. She'll say 'just keep being my best friend, okay?'

 

[Johnnyorganic]

Run.

You want more from the 'friendship' than she does now.

When she want's more, you will pay dearly.

Run.

 

[ganji11]

Its not that she annoys me, I mean I love the girl to death. It's just kind of frustrating I guess. I want her so bad. I've seen her get with guys at parties and shit, guys that obviously just want to fuck her. And she'll do it, and come to me apologizing about it and whatnot. Like im a girl or something!

 

[Johnnyorganic]

Its not that she annoys me, I mean I love the girl to death. It's just kind of frustrating I guess. I want her so bad. I've seen her get with guys at parties and shit, guys that obviously just want to fuck her. And she'll do it, and come to me apologizing about it and whatnot. Like im a girl or something!

Dude! You are not in the boyfriend league with this girl.

You are in the doormat league.

RUN!

 

[ExistentialToker]

lol thats a great lifestyle, only fuckin with chicks to get a 'lover' out of them. i have friends that are girls and its just like having friends that are guys.

if your attracted to this girl, just keep hanging out with her playing the friend card and slowly drop hints without being annoying. sooner or later shell let you know how she feels...after a while youll know if you shud just give up

 

[......]

Try and make a move and if she dont go with it just stay as friends.

 

[Brevity, The Soul Of Wit!]

Ask Her To Sport Fuck! Should Be Fun.

 

[ganji11]

lol thats a great lifestyle, only fuckin with chicks to get a 'lover' out of them. i have friends that are girls and its just like having friends that are guys.

if your attracted to this girl, just keep hanging out with her playing the friend card and slowly drop hints without being annoying. sooner or later shell let you know how she feels...after a while youll know if you shud just give up

Im not saying I dont have friends that are girls. Its just that most of them are dating a good friend, or Ive known them for years ect. I think with this girl though, it's best to just quit paying her as much attention as mentioned earlier. Everytime I stop talking to her, we'll hang out and get drunk or something, and she'll kiss me or tell me she has feelings for me..and I'll be like what the fuck..you know? Im a young guy, I still have alot to learn about women I guess. She's just toying with me isn't she?

 

[......]

Im not saying I dont have friends that are girls. Its just that most of them are dating a good friend, or Ive known them for years ect. I think with this girl though, it's best to just quit paying her as much attention as mentioned earlier. Everytime I stop talking to her, we'll hang out and get drunk or something, and she'll kiss me or tell me she has feelings for me..and I'll be like what the fuck..you know? Im a young guy, I still have alot to learn about women I guess. She's just toying with me isn't she?

If thats the case next time she does it just go for the pussy and if she doesn't let you,tell her to stop being a fucking tease and I bet she lets you hit.But it sounds like your trying to make it into something more then a fuck buddy

 

[Brevity, The Soul Of Wit!]

Honestly, this is pathetic. Just sayin'.

 

[ganji11]

Honestly, this is pathetic. Just sayin'.

hey dude, you're an asshole. Just sayin'

 

[ExistentialToker]

i agree try to get in her pants. make her commit to something. thats when youll figure out where its going .....maybe?

 

[ganji11]

I wasn't trying to sound 'pathetic'. I think we've all at some point known a woman like this. I was just wondering what other people think about it.

 

[tebor]

JohnnyO and acidbox both gave good advice.

try watching some David Deangelo.

 

[luckydog82]

Them type of Girls are more trouble than there worth ,If she's puttin out for others and she won't for you stop wasting your time

 

[Brevity, The Soul Of Wit!]

Well I meant the situation but too. Like I said. I've been in related situations and just waited for a comedic moment and snap, put on the pressure and, snap.

 

[ganji11]

I appreciate the advice guys.