hm, some advice? about guys...

[sarah22]

what are some signs that a guy is interested in you when talking to you? im incredibly daft when it comes to this, clueless...its a little pathetic sometimes hahaha. but i honestly dont know how to tell the difference between a guy who's interested in me, and someone who's just being nice. are there any specific things that guys do when they talk to a girl they're interested in? i just have no idea how to read signals, because if a guy is being nice to me, for all i know, he's just a really friendly person. guys tend to always be nice to me anyway, i guess because im a sweetheart or some shit like that haha. or at least thats what i've been told...but really...any advice would help. thanks! oh, and i could always provide specific examples of situations lol. if it will help.

 

[......]

If he pays more attention to you then the rest of your friends he probably likes you.
Just ask him if you like him to.
If you dont like him just ignore him lol.

 

[dew-b]

what are some signs that a guy is interested in you when talking to you? im incredibly daft when it comes to this, clueless...its a little pathetic sometimes hahaha. but i honestly dont know how to tell the difference between a guy who's interested in me, and someone who's just being nice. are there any specific things that guys do when they talk to a girl they're interested in? i just have no idea how to read signals, because if a guy is being nice to me, for all i know, he's just a really friendly person. guys tend to always be nice to me anyway, i guess because im a sweetheart or some shit like that haha. or at least thats what i've been told...but really...any advice would help. thanks! oh, and i could always provide specific examples of situations lol. if it will help.

best advice is learn to read body language. watch how the guys that are into your freinds act then learn from there. each guy is different. just watch out for those wussy guys that try to buy your love.ie flowers candy ect.

 

[jammin screw]

best advice is learn to read body language. watch how the guys that are into your freinds act then learn from there. each guy is different. just watch out for those wussy guys that try to buy your love.ie flowers candy ect.

Cheese n thi cat right here r right.... When yall talk u'll be able to tell.. He'll talk to u as much as u will talk to him n not cut short..look for. Wut u do when ur into to sumone.. Ull know mayn

 

[sarah22]

the thing with the friends...i can do that. but i usually end up hanging out with the boys anyway just because i have more fun with them lol. so they typically pay more attention to me anyway..but not because they like me..just because im more social with them.

i dont know...i mean, (this is from a long time ago) i was shopping at the mall with my 2 best friends one day. they're both really attractive girls. one's blonde, blue eyed, big boobs, shes the really "cute" one...lol. the other could be a model. she's got the body of a 16 year old cheerleader. lol. but we ran into a guy i was friends with in high school at the mall, and we were all talking and stuff, but he was clearly more talkative with me and paying me more attention than them...but i just assume thats because he knows me already, and he's just a really nice guy...so i dont know...*facepalm* gah.

 

[sarah22]

Cheese n thi cat right here r right.... When yall talk u'll be able to tell.. He'll talk to u as much as u will talk to him n not cut short..look for. Wut u do when ur into to sumone.. Ull know mayn

guys do that with me all the time though..talk to me for as long as i talk to them. when im into someone i dont do anything out of the ordinary, i just act the same all the time. god...and men think that women are confusing.

 

[Cali.Grown>408]

when i like a girl i flirt and try to get her naked..if i really like her ima try to get to know her and ask deep questions and shit..you'll know if a guy is really into u..and most guys are the same unless they have no game or are shy or something

 

[UNICRONLIVES]

if he looks you in the eyes when he talks to you= he likes you!!as a friend! if he looks at your boobs when he talks to you=he likes you!! as a friend with benefits!! LOL

 

[dew-b]

guys do that with me all the time though..talk to me for as long as i talk to them. when im into someone i dont do anything out of the ordinary, i just act the same all the time. god...and men think that women are confusing.

your probly giving the wrong body language signs.your avatars's body language says to me that your dangerous. but your face says inasent(like i can spell stoned). if you can invade his personal space he is comfortable around you. time for an other bowl. i am into you you sexy thing

 

[sarah22]

hmm, well, this is indeed very interesting. so he'll talk to me for as long as i talk to him, he'll look me right in the eyes...lol k.

how about stretching his arm up over his head to try and flex? haha. i dont know guys...guys do these things around me a lot and they're not interested in me as more than a friend. i know this because...well...they're just friends! hahaha

oh, how about "accidentally" texting and or calling my cell phone?

 

[sarah22]

your probly giving the wrong body language signs.your avatars's body language says to me that your dangerous. but your face says inasent(like i can spell stoned). if you can invade his personal space he is comfortable around you. time for an other bowl. i am into you you sexy thing

im an innocent sweetheart. i have my tough side, my evil badass bitch side haha. but i dont let that come out unless its necessary. i dont want to say that im not dangerous, because i can be, its just that its a rare thing for me to lose control. you're probably right though...body language...thanks

 

[......]

hmm, well, this is indeed very interesting. so he'll talk to me for as long as i talk to him, he'll look me right in the eyes...lol k.

how about stretching his arm up over his head to try and flex? haha. i dont know guy...guys do these things around me a lot and they're not interested in me as more than a friend. i know this because...well...they're just friends! hahaha

oh, how about "accidentally" texting and or calling my cell phone?

yea it does sound like he likes you if hes doing all that accident texting and shit

 

[sarah22]

yea it does sound like he likes you if hes doing all that accident texting and shit

haha yea...that particular guy has a g/f now...but...i wondered about him lol.

he called my phone one day and he asked for someone, i dont remember what the name was. but i said "um, you have the wrong number" and i never got another accidental text or call again lol. i didnt realize it was a guy i knew, i was half asleep and didnt bother to look at the call display, i just picked up the phone. he'd "accidentally" called/texted 6 or 7 times in a couple weeks. but after that...nothing ever again. lol.

 

[GrowingfortheGold]

My phone is always callin my friends up. But there is no "accidental" text.

 

[UNICRONLIVES]

I think he is tryin to give you hints that he does like you!! But I aint no Dr. Phil !!!

 

[ReelFiles]

It's way simpler than that. men are a lot more feral than women. IE; if a dude is talking to you he's interested. PERIOD. Whether he's available or not, Kris Rock nailed it.

[youtube]XMiyg87UhL4[/youtube]

 

[......]

haha yea...that particular guy has a g/f now...but...i wondered about him lol.

go whoop that bitches ass then or pistol whip her or something
nah j/k im just playing.

 

[......]

It's way simpler than that. men are a lot more feral than women. IE; if a dude is talking to you he's interested. PERIOD. Whether he's available or not, Kris Rock nailed it.

[youtube]XMiyg87UhL4[/youtube]

lol that was the funniest shit I ever heard chris rock say.Its true to.

 

[dew-b]

hmm, well, this is indeed very interesting. so he'll talk to me for as long as i talk to him, he'll look me right in the eyes...lol k.

how about stretching his arm up over his head to try and flex? haha. i dont know guys...guys do these things around me a lot and they're not interested in me as more than a friend. i know this because...well...they're just friends! hahaha

oh, how about "accidentally" texting and or calling my cell phone?

he could be shy. trying to get he courage to tell you how he feels. watch james bond movies watch how 007 acts when he gets the girls. that is how i my got my charm. that of tatooed trailer trash.i am still wating for an answer to the question i ask in the fat or skinny chick thread. define fat?

 

[sarah22]

It's way simpler than that. men are a lot more feral than women. IE; if a dude is talking to you he's interested. PERIOD. Whether he's available or not, Kris Rock nailed it.

[youtube]XMiyg87UhL4[/youtube]

hahahaha i've nearly got that whole comedy special memorized. i love chris rock