sarah22
Well-Known Member
So i last night im chilling with my boys at a buddies house. and this guy who goes over there a lot when im not around was there with this chick. i hadnt met the guy before, but i've heard all about him from the rest of our group of friends. then this chick was someone that he just randomly had with him and she wasnt really a "regular" in our group of friends. I thought she was obnoxious and irritating and i couldnt stand her. and im being nice. i was totally standoffish and didnt talk to her really at all. she was introduced to everyone but she was just chatting with a couple of the guys there. now, im totally all for new people coming in to join our regular group that all hang out together, but i hate when they bring over random friends who are really high strung. because we hang out and we all toke together, we're really mellow and chilled out and low key. this girl was loud and obnoxious and would just randomly make high pitched loud sounds while talking to people..totally harshing the mellow, buzzed, calm atmosphere that we had going on.
what do you guys do in this situation? i totally ignored her. thankfully they didnt stick around long, but i think if she had stuck around i would have put my foot in her ass. i know im just being territorial, not wanting some new annoying person over there...but its not my house, and so thats why i shut my mouth, out of respect for my friend because its his home. but i think he probably wasnt too impressed with her either, so what do i do in that situation again? should i ask permission from my buddy to kick her loud mouth out when she gets to be too much?
what do you guys do in this situation? i totally ignored her. thankfully they didnt stick around long, but i think if she had stuck around i would have put my foot in her ass. i know im just being territorial, not wanting some new annoying person over there...but its not my house, and so thats why i shut my mouth, out of respect for my friend because its his home. but i think he probably wasnt too impressed with her either, so what do i do in that situation again? should i ask permission from my buddy to kick her loud mouth out when she gets to be too much?