yeah that is kinda fucked up man... hope you don't have those plants inside the same house where that kid sleeps man. All it takes, is one person to screw things up for ya. You would have your kid taken away from you, lose your house, you would also go to jail for child endangerment (which too me.. is waaayy worse than some drug charge).
People like you, who have kid(s)... and married or whatever.. you ppl have a lot to lose man. If I were in your shoes.. I would just stick to smoking bud (never around the kid though).. and not growing bud. Or, if your going to grow bud man... at least take your grow op some where, where the kid will never be in the same area where the plants are.
The reason I grow.. is because I don't like paying $20.00 or more per gram for pot; I only grow what I need for personal use (which is plenty); I don't grow in my house (my plants are at another location far from my crib) because I don't want to lose my house; I grow because if I get caught.. I don't really have anything to lose.. but then again.. I won't get caught.. because nobody.. NOBODY.. but me knows about my grow.. and where its located..
But hey.. each to his/her own.. I just wish ppl like you.. who expose little kids to this type of environment.. would get the fucking message.
hope your plants die..
peace.