advice i should give to my lil bro

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ukgrower2110

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hes 14 almost 15, smokes weed, aspires to be like me even tho i tell him that my lifes not all irie and tippa, hes in yr 9 at school,he hangs around in the smoking corner at his school and recently a new "member" has joined, according to him shes a brunette, around his height, her and him been gettin kinda close, hes not a virgin and he doesnt know if she is or isnt, she is in yr 8(so shes only 13), the prob is hes thinkin of askin her out and i dont know what to tell him, on the one hand she is a year younger, on the other shes hangin round in the smokers corner so shes not exaclty the best behaved. i think he should wait till hes in yr 10(hes 15) and shes in yr 9(shes 14) so they are abit more mature, what do u guys think i should tell him?

p.s his school is breaking up on tuesday and right after school hes gettin on a plane to cyprus so they wont be seein each other for the summer, when there over hes in yr 10 and her yr 9, ill be in cyprus around the same time as him, wont be with my parents, we bought a villa in agia nappa so clubs are nearby, im thinkin of lettin him stay with me for a week or 2 so i can show him bout bein a adult, ill take him to clubs etc and show him how to talk to girls properly, il also get his ass majorly stoned so he learns not too keep building tolerance. what u guys think i should tell him? he said to me that if i dont tell him by monday hes gonna ask her out, knowing him theyl be gettin busy on tuesday.
 
andar

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let him get some ass before he leaves there nothing wrong with that. i dont fully understand your concern. your worried that hes gonna be like you but your gonna take him clubbing and talk to girls and get him stoned? hes 15 years old i know hes still immature but hell be 18 before you know it might as well let him make his own decisions now. if he likes that girl he should talk to her.
 
mconn333

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sound ok to me just teach him to keep a level head about shit and dont let no dumb bitch rope u into bullshit. give him the "some girls like all boys, dont get mad" talk because if she smokes she deffinetly pokes. at least thats what my dad said to me when i was that age
 
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ukgrower2110 said:
hes 14 almost 15, smokes weed, aspires to be like me even tho i tell him that my lifes not all irie and tippa, hes in yr 9 at school,he hangs around in the smoking corner at his school and recently a new "member" has joined, according to him shes a brunette, around his height, her and him been gettin kinda close, hes not a virgin and he doesnt know if she is or isnt, she is in yr 8(so shes only 13), the prob is hes thinkin of askin her out and i dont know what to tell him, on the one hand she is a year younger, on the other shes hangin round in the smokers corner so shes not exaclty the best behaved. i think he should wait till hes in yr 10(hes 15) and shes in yr 9(shes 14) so they are abit more mature, what do u guys think i should tell him?

p.s his school is breaking up on tuesday and right after school hes gettin on a plane to cyprus so they wont be seein each other for the summer, when there over hes in yr 10 and her yr 9, ill be in cyprus around the same time as him, wont be with my parents, we bought a villa in agia nappa so clubs are nearby, im thinkin of lettin him stay with me for a week or 2 so i can show him bout bein a adult, ill take him to clubs etc and show him how to talk to girls properly, il also get his ass majorly stoned so he learns not too keep building tolerance. what u guys think i should tell him? he said to me that if i dont tell him by monday hes gonna ask her out, knowing him theyl be gettin busy on tuesday.
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kids will be kids..... and if he is like any of us when we were that age, he will simply do the exact opposite of what you tell him to do... lol. teen age hormones, potential sex... hard to walk away from. let him be a kid. best thing you could do is make for damn sure he knows what the consequences of NOT using a condom are.
 
ukgrower2110

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the prob is shes a year yunga than him, he called and i told him to wait and ill call him back, he will use a dom or ill kick his balls in, another prob is if hes followed my dads side of the family like i have, his johnny might be a bit big for a 13 yr old, hes changed in a way simmilar to shane in weeds, hornier than a motherfucker, when i lived with my 'rents and i slept in the room next to his it was hell, the kid would wank like 5 times a night. i would be in my room burnin a fatty and all of a sudden i would hear some bangin on my wall, first time it happend i ran into his room thinkin he was havin a fit, i open the door and see this 11 yr old in complete shock, me, being 15 and stoned laughed my ass off and told him about my technique and gave him a few mags, he did my washing, washed my bike, bagged my weed and did what the fuck i told him for like 5 months straight.
 
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robert 14617 said:
"The dutch rudder " i want to party with you cowboy
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lol thats not what i did. i just described the technique and told him to practice it, 3 years of experience led me to all kinds of diff techniques, some easy for begginers, i told him one, the double hander its called, one hand on the bottom one on top, alternate between rotations and up and down movement. i found a soft way to tell him he shouldnt do it just incase its the decision i come to:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=STcD1Mw35Ic&feature=related
 
N0iZ

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A year is nothing. Let the kid be with the girl. I myself make the cut off around 3 years. Depending on the girl that is... and i do understand your situation. Im kinda going though this with my cuzion, only he is 12 and has a crush on a 14yr. What can i say, he likes the older ladies :lol:
But yea, let him do what he wants. He'll probaly do it anyway, just behinde your back
 
ukgrower2110

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i called and asked him how close theyv got. this girl seriously wants it. on friday they left school together and went to the park. they had 2 fattys and a few ciders. they stayed from 2.40 till around 11. they kissed he fingered her a few times and she gave him a few handjobs, they got dirtier but not into full blown penetration. i told him that if she wanted it, do the right thing and give her what she asked for. im gonna feel pissed if they fuck and he gets her preg or sutin. i just hope he does the right thing and doesnt get nicked for peadophilia.
 
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