The little plant is a different project. Here's a few more, better pics of the plant in question.
My friend who begged me to let him bring over that plant, swears it's a female but I am really skeptical. I think he's just in complete denial that it's a male plant despite me showing him all the replies on here.
I think it *might* be a hermie and the pics I posted before didn't really show the bud sites. It does have what appear to be budding sites which I thought only females had, but the "balls" on the plant scream "male."