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GanJulia

GanJulia

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Im a nanny. yesterday, the cops come to my work. turns out my boyfriend of 28 months stole 25k worth of jewelry from my boss and from my family to pawn and buy oxycontin because he doesn't have a job. I kicked him out and he left the state, back home to his mom. im reallly sad and alone

will someone cheer me up?
 
april

april

Pickle Queen
oh sweety i'm soo sorry this has happened to you, oxy is very very addictive drug. People do things they would never do if not addicted.
Be very proud you took a stand and eliminated such a negative thing from your life. I truly hope your family and work understand you had nothing to do with his actions.
I dated someone with very similar issues, leaving him was the hardest but best thing i ever did. He needs to help himself, your not responsible for someone elses choices.
I'm very sorry for all that is happening right now, and remember you are never alone , people in your life (girl friends) are only a phone call away, and i'm always around if you need a friend.
 
GanJulia

GanJulia

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Thanks girl. Its really hard but I know its better I worry about myself now.. I have a puppy too that we got together and she's real good company :) I hope his family can help him because I know oxy is a crazy drug and he is a good person, he wasn't always doing it...

love you all <3 I wish you could all come over and smoke a bong with me right now
 
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sciencenerd

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GanJulia said:
Im a nanny. yesterday, the cops come to my work. turns out my boyfriend of 28 months stole 25k worth of jewelry from my boss and from my family to pawn and buy oxycontin because he doesn't have a job. I kicked him out and he left the state, back home to his mom. im reallly sad and alone

will someone cheer me up?
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You can talk to me if you so wish to.

I personally have been where your boyfriend is at.. I've been down that "addiction" road. It's no fun.. and it literally makes the addict do things that he really has no control over. It's his brain and body telling him that he needs another fix.. and whatever he has to do to get it.. he'll do. It's not because he doesn't love you.. or anything like that. It's just he's addicted and under the influence of a VERY powerful narcotic. It's basically synthetic heroin... to tell you the truth.

Anyhow, if you want some information and ideas from someone who's been down the same road as your boyfriend.. please by all means feel free to get in touch with me if you feel comfortable doing so.

Good luck either way!

peace
-ganjaluvr
 
racerboy71

racerboy71

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damn. that sucks girl.. i hope everything is ok with the job still and all though.. guys suck, trust me, i'm one..
and april is right about people doing stupid shit they never would have done otherwise, although that's not much of an excuse..
glad to hear he is out of your life and your free of that mess..
 
GanJulia

GanJulia

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Oh, and the kicker, we were leaving for a Bonaire island trip on Friday(tomorrow). My dad and his wife were taking me and my boyfriend. Obviously now its just the 3 of us, but I think its a good thing I have this trip to take my mind off of it. Its almost too hard to work through right now I need to let it settle :(
 
april

april

Pickle Queen
Yes enjoy your trip, chances are you'll meet up with some fun people that you'll have a blast with and take your mind off all this, but remember it's not your or his fault.
He became addicted, now he needs help, does not mean he's a bad person or he did it on purpose, he's sick.
 
GanJulia

GanJulia

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pretty sure I lost my job. Even if I did keep it I feel incredibly awkward and ashamed I don't think i could salvage the relationship. The boys were told NOT to go with me after school if I came to pick them up. How do I fix a relationship with two 7 year olds?!

:(
 
Gafoogle

Gafoogle

Well-Known Member
GanJulia said:
pretty sure I lost my job. Even if I did keep it I feel incredibly awkward and ashamed I don't think i could salvage the relationship. The boys were told NOT to go with me after school if I came to pick them up. How do I fix a relationship with two 7 year olds?!

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the important thing is that it's not your fault, so they'll get over it in time. I doubt they see any you differently, they probably just don't understand what happened and are confused. nothing some quality time and ice cream wouldn't fix, provided everything smoothes out with the employers. hopefully it does :)
 
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