Guys and girls are actually more similar than you think... when you ask a small child " how do you know the difference between a boy and a girl" their answer is something along the lines of, well girls have long hair, boys have short hair, girls wear dresses, etc, etc. The point being until we hit puberty we are essentially the same, and we don't realize that the opposite sex is really any different then we are. Even after puberty, we as human beings are really more alike than different (men and women that is) and really the reason we think we're so different is only because of society. Society makes us believe we are so different, and that a woman should be this and man should be that.
What I'm trying to get to, is if its a certain way for a guy its probably the same for a girl.... So as a guy, I can give you my opinion... right? If you REALLY enjoy smoking herb and think it honestly enhances things (i.e. food, music, movies, etc) then I strongly believe you will also enjoy having sex while stoned. I love it personally, smoking a joint while having sex is always fun, but to be quite honest I'm always stoned so I don't even really have sex un-stoned LOL.
As far as my current girlfriend, as well as my last, are concerned, they too enjoyed having sex stoned. Sometimes we'll even say "lets get stoned and have sex"... that's always exciting to a true stoner, cuz smoking before any enjoyable act seems to make it even more enjoyable, ya dig? I suppose as long as your partner enjoys herb as much as you do, you guys will both have a great time making stoned love!
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