bblzs
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.......<3 nothing left to say!
I don't understand
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xKuroiTaimax
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Ori is a funny one.
We've had a few misunderstandings early on due our odd dispositions, but he's really nice to cuddle if you just mind the prickly bits.
Come here, Ori... *fumbles*
We've had a few misunderstandings early on due our odd dispositions, but he's really nice to cuddle if you just mind the prickly bits.
Come here, Ori... *fumbles*
Orithil
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I have noticed that, people who have to work far too hard for the little they get, so hard in fact they never get to enjoy the money they're working for. I can see how that would make someone a little angry. I don't pity them though, I pity those who want to work but can't due to petty cannabis possession convictions.
Orithil
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XD I just say what's on my mind, is all. I'm not mad, I don't hate on people doing what they do, but c'mon...isn't free speech one thing we all agree there should be more of?
xKuroiTaimax
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BiBi needs to hurry up and get over to Lace and Frills. I await your contribution ^^
*Comes back with more stuffed animals and a blanket for Ori* You're going to have to share this bigass bag of Doritos with Bibi and I.
*Comes back with more stuffed animals and a blanket for Ori* You're going to have to share this bigass bag of Doritos with Bibi and I.
cannabineer
Ursus marijanus
Demonstrably not correct. You labeled my first post on How Old as illegitimate and me as ridiculous. As near as I can tell it was without cause or provocation. This conforms to even my most forgiving standard of being a target of meanness.I guess It's so awful to me because I'm never mean to ANYONE. That is unless their as asshole to me first.
I shouldn't ponder this I guess. Life is too short! I'm happy I live the life I do
I requested clarification. You elected to ignore my post. In my considered opinion, this does not help your claim. If you can make a compelling case that I have been an asshole first, I will pay attention. cn
brandon727272
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cannabineer
Ursus marijanus
Thank you Brandon, but it is in neither my interest or nature to want to "score" off someone else. I am commenting on a dissonance between Bblzs' image of how she behaves ... and my image of how she behaved. I would prefer understanding to winning. cn
Total Head
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how can we "not judge" people? that's warm fuzzy talk, not reality.
example, let's say someone makes a comment that i find offensive/ignorant/rude/whatever. can i help thinking that they are a douchebag? i can keep quiet about it, but i can't "un-evaluate" that person's actions. i don't have to verbally call them a douche, but the judgement has been made.
personally i find it unreasonable to go through life without EVER verbalizing these observations and judgements.
on the other hand there's a time and place for everything and a LOT of people need to check their watch before they speak, but since judgements/evaluations are subjective, there's almost no point worrying about perception. just be.
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example, let's say someone makes a comment that i find offensive/ignorant/rude/whatever. can i help thinking that they are a douchebag? i can keep quiet about it, but i can't "un-evaluate" that person's actions. i don't have to verbally call them a douche, but the judgement has been made.
personally i find it unreasonable to go through life without EVER verbalizing these observations and judgements.
on the other hand there's a time and place for everything and a LOT of people need to check their watch before they speak, but since judgements/evaluations are subjective, there's almost no point worrying about perception. just be.
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Orithil
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I personally think that not judging is as easy as accepting you're not right about everything. If you accept you might be wrong, then you can accept someone else might be right....then they're not a douche bag, they just have an interesting point of view.
AltarNation
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This thread has really turned around guys, kudos 
Orithil
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We labor to show that adults can hold different opinions respectfully. Thank you for your support.This thread has really turned around guys, kudos
AltarNation
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Right on.
BTW your avatar is terror. heh.
BTW your avatar is terror. heh.
Total Head
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isn't the mere evaluation of the person's point of view being interesting a "judgement"? i can decide that someone is a turd or i can decide they are just coloring the rainbow of life, but either way i had to decide. some days nothing can jack my mood, other days i snap if someone coughs. maybe on monday they are a turd but on tuesday they are just quirky (in my eyes). maybe on wednesday they're god. even when we applaud a joke we have made a judgement.
perhaps a better question would be "why do people take emotions to such extremes?" why is it not good enough to just observe to oneself that someone is bothersome/humorous/kind/etc.? why the billboard? sure, no one complains when someone points out a nice smile but mention the back fat and lose some teeth. it's all one and the same if you ask me but somehow i'm expected to know everyone's buttons and avoid them, so i try to play the game and keep my mouth shut.
and by the way, i'm NEVER wrong
Sr. Verde
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smokinheavy79
New Member
we all know how you get down.
Shannon Alexander
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I'll come in bethany's place... and you can wax me...
and I'll dance in my pretty man panties...
Shannon Alexander
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As a side note... From the last all girl party that I talked my way in to as entertainment... The waxing of the hairs near the ankle... most painful of the whole entire body...
xKuroiTaimax
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Shan-Shan has privileges. And Sr Verde has enticed me with the kind offer of his rather large bed. It will be far more fun, warm and soft when it is full.
