Wife wants to move back in , can't grow

Pat the stoner

Pat the stoner

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Wife wants to move back in , if she does that means I'll have to get rid of anything - no growing . I am fucked again . Does anyone ever feel sometimes theres a person having a really great life somewhere and you get used to make up for it . No anyway I would rather convince her of the medical purpose of it but I'm pretty sure she doesn't believe and won't . So I am not sure what I should do . I want her to move back in and I don't want any dishonesty messing things up so I am not interested in hiding it from her but am also sure she would flip if she saw any plants growing in the house .
 
Johnnyorganic

Johnnyorganic

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You have a choice to make.

Make it.

Don't back away once you've made it. No apologies either way. It's your choice.

Best of luck.
 
bkbbudz

bkbbudz

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Are you in a legal state? Do you have a card? Is the reason you have the card valid? Then it can be explained and I of course don't know why she moved out to begin with and it ain't none of my beeswax. But, consider this, if you answered no to the first 2 questions and things go sour again, your kids (if any) and family will likely be visiting you through a pane of glass. As for the rest I agree with JohnnieOrganic
 
robert 14617

robert 14617

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are there kids involved , this doesn't sound like a partnership to me it sounds like its going to all be my way or nothing
 
dbkick

dbkick

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Pat the stoner said:
Wife wants to move back in , if she does that means I'll have to get rid of anything - no growing . I am fucked again . Does anyone ever feel sometimes theres a person having a really great life somewhere and you get used to make up for it . No anyway I would rather convince her of the medical purpose of it but I'm pretty sure she doesn't believe and won't . So I am not sure what I should do . I want her to move back in and I don't want any dishonesty messing things up so I am not interested in hiding it from her but am also sure she would flip if she saw any plants growing in the house .
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details. man there's a reason she's an ex now and chances are she'll be a ex again, if you do convince her and she allows you to grow that will be fine.....until she flips the fuck out yet again, they do that shit man, you gotta look at her with a different perspective( the song "old love" and "bad love) come in mind. ready to get busted if she;s cool with you growing and turns psycho? There's other women out there for you man, just DO NOT let them in on the grow.
 
ohmy

ohmy

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Oh boy, I can honestly saay that if a female left once she will do it again. About the time you get everything cleaned up and no more grow she will say that she is unhappy and walk out. Now If she was not playing games and really loved you she would not mind you growing a few plants. ...Best of luck to ya
 
dbkick

dbkick

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ohmy said:
Oh boy, I can honestly saay that if a female left once she will do it again. About the time you get everything cleaned up and no more grow she will say that she is unhappy and walk out. Now If she was not playing games and really loved you she would not mind you growing a few plants. ...Best of luck to ya
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you said a mouthful brother but sometimes it hard to tell how sincere they are and what you are really capable of. as everything it comes down to the individual/individuals involved.
 
GreenGrower14

GreenGrower14

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Theres a reason the are called Ex's. You split up for a reason. that reason probably will come back, and if i were you i wouldnt have it. there are plenty of girls out there that love cannabis and are ok with growers (as long as we share lol ) think of it this way... You let her move back in, she says shes "cool" with you growing. Then one night you have a huge break up, whats to stop her from turning you over (if your not in a med state) since she has already expressed her dislike of your hobby. If your going to have a partner that will want you for you they should accept that this is your passion. Im a mechanic rebuilding a 65 stang it leaks oil everywhere and my garage looks like hell with all the parts, but if a female tried to make me stop working on it she would be on the curve faster than the car. lol feel me brother.
 
ohmy

ohmy

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Pat the stoner said:
There are no children involved .
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that is good, So she can not use the kids as a tool, but she can with ur plants. Man I know it sucks when a loved one walks out the door, but ya have to ask ur self why did she do it ? was she getting ding dong from someone else? i would say yes, and not saying that to try to hurt you,but i have had same shit done on me a whole bunch of times, someday I will find one that loves me for me and not use my faults for a reason to walk out the door.Some women, and men just are not happy with one person. they get a rush going from one to the next and seeing what then can get in a short time.....take a break, get ur head clear and start the wonderful dating games as there are plenty of fish in the sea
 
bkbbudz

bkbbudz

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ohmy said:
that is good, So she can not use the kids as a tool, but she can with ur plants. Man I know it sucks when a loved one walks out the door, but ya have to ask ur self why did she do it ? was she getting ding dong from someone else? i would say yes, and not saying that to try to hurt you,but i have had same shit done on me a whole bunch of times, someday I will find one that loves me for me and not use my faults for a reason to walk out the door.Some women, and men just are not happy with one person. they get a rush going from one to the next and seeing what then can get in a short time.....take a break, get ur head clear and start the wonderful dating games as there are plenty of fish in the sea
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I agree with most of this ...except When my 1st wife left me someone I barely knew and who did not know my wife at all just glibly said to me "She was probably cheating on you" I was arrested that night for putting him in the hospital. Just sayin.
 
ohmy

ohmy

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bkbbudz said:
I agree with most of this ...except When my 1st wife left me someone I barely knew and who did not know my wife at all just glibly said to me "She was probably cheating on you" I was arrested that night for putting him in the hospital. Just sayin.
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lol, I was told that a girl of mine needed a break, so i left and did not call or see her for two days and decided i would be the better person and go see her, was before cell phones. so i went to the appartment , still had my key. opened the door and seen her and the new man making out on the couch, He got the suprise of his life, and he had to take a few weeks off from work as he could not see out his eyes. i been through a few women. I am not saying all women are whores but every time one breaks up over stupid shit is because they have something else going on. Best bet is to grab someone's ride that they do not know. and check up on em...If they say they are home not feeling good or something it does not hurt to ride by and see who is there....just do not do anything stupid if someone is. Gps trackers are cheep now ;-) and so small that one could be slipped into her car and they would not know it lol. Years ago it was easy when everyone had landlines to slip a recorder on the line.now the cell phone has to be in ur name and you can see who is calling and texting, but unable to read text unless court order.
 
a mongo frog

a mongo frog

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ok, keep your grow going its no big deal. just tell your wife to stay away from your fucking shit.
tell her if she knows whats good for her to keep her hand off that stuff "over there".
if she starts touching your shit tell her " see this is why i got rid of your lazy ass the last time, get out"
hope this helps.
 
a mongo frog

a mongo frog

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ohmy said:
lol, I was told that a girl of mine needed a break, so i left and did not call or see her for two days and decided i would be the better person and go see her, was before cell phones. so i went to the appartment , still had my key. opened the door and seen her and the new man making out on the couch, He got the suprise of his life, and he had to take a few weeks off from work as he could not see out his eyes. i been through a few women. I am not saying all women are whores but every time one breaks up over stupid shit is because they have something else going on. Best bet is to grab someone's ride that they do not know. and check up on em...If they say they are home not feeling good or something it does not hurt to ride by and see who is there....just do not do anything stupid if someone is. Gps trackers are cheep now ;-) and so small that one could be slipped into her car and they would not know it lol. Years ago it was easy when everyone had landlines to slip a recorder on the line.now the cell phone has to be in ur name and you can see who is calling and texting, but unable to read text unless court order.
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why would u kick the guys ass. what did he do?
 
alotaball

alotaball

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Why would you choose to spend your life with someone that you have not even had children with ... that cant understand what you believe in or want. My wife was opposed to pot .. but once she seen the proof on how it helps my nerve pain while sleeping .. especially since I hadnt slept more then 3 hours at a time since the last back surgery.. she now encourages it.. helps water .. feed.. trim. But also we dont know the whole story.. are you a addictive person.. was pot a problem in your relationship previously .... if she is that biased with no other previous problems related to pot.. then why the hell would you want to be married to her.. spend the rest of ur life with her.. marriage is hard enough without a joint right before bed!
 
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