Umm ok since you are asking so politely, basically after Abe Lincoln freed the slaves they were still treated like property. Most families in slavery were torn apart, especially the fathers were taken away on purpose so that the mother would have to play both roles and the slaves wouldnt feel like they were worth enough to revolt. This degredation led to black men not knowing what a father is in most cases. It became the norm for a father to be split from his kids so even after slavery it kept happening. Combine this with the constant reminders in society that blacks are loud, ignorant, wild people and you have generation after generation of black kids that have to suffer and dont really get anywhere in life. Its too much to type right now dude, let me find some links.