Having kids?

[VILEPLUME]

I am at that age now where I am thinking about having kids.

My girl and I are almost ready, but I wanted to ask you guys something first.

To the people that have kids, how many did you have and are they worth it?

To the people that are older and dont have kids and probably never will, do you regret not having them? And if not, what were you able to do without having to worry about kids all the time?

Thanks guys.

 

[MrFrance]

I have a girl and a boy. Yes they are worth it.

 

[Capt. Stickyfingers]

Kids are great. The first one is always awkward for a minute, but it passes once you get in the groove, then you can't imagine your life without a child. It's of course hard when you have to teach them right from wrong and catch them doing shit they shouldn't do or say. I was a dad at 19 so I had to get used to it really fast. Now I have 3 boys, 12, 8, and 5. It can be frustrating, but kids are so precious that all the negative parts of parenthood can take a back seat. I wouldn't trade being the father of my kids for anything.

 

[mygirls]

I am at that age now where I am thinking about having kids.

My girl and I are almost ready, but I wanted to ask you guys something first.

To the people that have kids, how many did you have and are they worth it?

To the people that are older and dont have kids and probably never will, do you regret not having them? And if not, what were you able to do without having to worry about kids all the time?

Thanks guys.

im 44 years old with no kids of my own, do i wish i had one or two of my own YES I DO.. but help raising my nephews is just as good as having my own i guess.. i love them like they were mine..
the nice thing about not having kids is you can go, do, see, eat, spend, buy, have., and shit not getting broke.. oh and the most important part.. kids can cost you your freedom. but life with out kids would be like life with out dogs and cats...BORING

 

[MrFrance]

i missed my kids growing up, i was always working. one day i arrived home and they were all gone - she took them to england of all places.

i had thought it was great fun throwing them out of airplanes (don't try to figure out your childs career path, they hate me for it). one return home after field surgery to many was the issue. kids are great fun but don't ignore your woman, remember that woman is their mommy. wives etc worry about you So will your childreni it's called love, took me a long time to learn. that's some of the reason they're with you, they want to kiss you better and not see you hurt.

I see my kids every now and then, I've cut my wife off. I still want to throw them out of airplanes

 

[welsh stoner]

I'm 36,my not so little girl is nearly 9 now. She is the best thing that has come into my life,go for it mate you will never regret it,sometimes it's hard work but it's well worth it when they tell you how much they love you.

 

[ANC]

The wife and I finaly have a 6 day old baby girl after being together for 17 years.
It is the most awesome experience ever so far.

 

[Bryn]

i have 2 boys and they are well worth it. just think i get to sit down and watch all the old school cartoons again.

 

[chrishydro]

I am a single father and have been for a very long time, 20 yo son and 15 yo daughter. My GF is my age and never had children. We have this talke a lot. Pros and Cons, first off I love them and would not trade them for my own life. They have been my pride and joy for a very long time and I dont regret a thing.

With that said listen and listen close. Go get fixed today, dont have them run away if you gf demands a child. It is just flat out like taking a gun and blowing your own head off every day for the rest of your life. Ass kicking, pain, labor, all your money, all your stuff, all your fears come to light.

LOL

I AM NOT KIDDING YOU GO GET FIXED TODAY.

 

[Kaendar]

I have a son. Kids are expensive, time consuming, and you have to change alot of your habits to accommodate them, but it is very worth it in the end. There is nothing like waking up and seeing your own child smile.

 

[MrFrance]

it got absurd. my champions became wards of court. no matter who you think you are, the court will put it in your mouth.

they couldn't travel without us both agreeing so they went nowhere!

 

[VILEPLUME]

Thanks for the responses guys.

Another question, we all smoke and probably most of us here grow weed. So do you still smoke and grow weed where your children live? Or does that stop when you have children?

If you still grow and smoke, do you hide it or do you show them and tell them about it?

 

[Capt. Stickyfingers]

Thanks for the responses guys.

Another question, we all smoke and probably most of us here grow weed. So do you still smoke and grow weed where your children live? Or does that stop when you have children?

If you still grow and smoke, do you hide it or do you show them and tell them about it?

I don't hide it, but I don't smoke around them either. I think to hide it is to show shame in what your doing and make it seem like it's really bad. People that drink beer don't hide the fact that they drink beer from their kids or smoke cigs. My kids have never asked me about it, but when they do I'll tell them the facts.

 

[Dr. Greenhorn]

have 3 kids and I'm stoked on all of them. I don't hide my smoking either. there is no reason too, it's not like I am doing anything wrong

 

[PUFeNUF]

im 44 years old with no kids of my own, do i wish i had one or two of my own YES I DO.. but help raising my nephews is just as good as having my own i guess.. i love them like they were mine..
the nice thing about not having kids is you can go, do, see, eat, spend, buy, have., and shit not getting broke.. oh and the most important part.. kids can cost you your freedom. but life with out kids would be like life with out dogs and cats...BORING

i'll be just fine with cats and dogs. goats, chickens, rabbits, a garden, and a female.

 

[MrFrance]

i'll be just fine with cats and dogs. goats, chickens, rabbits, a garden, and a female.

look sorry ya but you're the man worried about a fucking drug test. You aint fine. where are you going to get the feed for those animals?
pulling it out of your arse?

 

[Nitegazer]

Seeing that the 'no child' side of this discussion is a bit thin, I thought I would say a few things.

First I love kids, and love being an uncle, but never wanted to have my own. Hats off to all the parent posters, becuase it takes a significant amount of dedication to be one. Don't take anything I write here as dis'ing parenthood, I just want to get out some of the good stuff about being a DINK (double income no kids).

I find that not having children has enriched my relationship with my wife in ways that would not have been possible with children. We are equal-footed partners, and share a great deal of time with each other as lovers rather than parents. I have more time to dedicate to art, and more money to spend on travel and friends. I can grow pot and smoke it whenever the heck I want. My spouse is in her mid-40s and is smokin' hot. We have great friends (other DINKs) and they have become an extension of our family.

I don't regret forgoing kids. I'll be honest, and say that my wife (back in her early 30s) fought me tooth and nail over the kids issue. Now she says, "I'm so glad we didn't have kids."

I love being an uncle and neighbor who can lend a hand to other parents in their child rearing. Being an adult without children gives me certain creds with kids; I'm not a 'parent' figure, I'm a grown up friend.

 

[charface]

Very mixed blessing, Some of my best times revolve around the kids and also some of my worse.
However I would have best and worst times without kids. Its hard to imagine life before kids.
Mine are boys 16, 21 and 25
One finished high school and decided to go to work at advanced N (before I knew he really smoked)
He is a big sweet person It has been nothing but pleasure to be around him. Genuinely good person.
The other Is in running start and will spend his last years of high school attending college. (yep he came from my penis)
The other I love and can not get along with and its a fucking horrible situation.
Long story short he started with pills, graduated to herion and jails and is currently psychotic and off his meds.

The point is that I went way out of my way to treat them all very fairly. Wehn we went to the movies they
went. When others ditched their kids we took ours. If I disciplined them I ALWAYS let them know why and how I expected
it to help them in the future. I had drug problems but thank god I started getting my shit together so they only seen
that side of me but I did not hide my recovery and they know the problems I have endured due to drug abuse.
The deal is they will do what they choose and it feels sometimes that it diddnt matter how well I treated them
since they do what they want anyway but I really think things could be much worse if I had not.

Its like this you may have to go to this human that you love more than anything and explain he has
a wiping problem and at his age his buddies will start to notice. Its a hard thing, lol But if you dont than your a
coward and doing the child a disservice. Anyway I know that was a weird example but I`m glad you are thinking this over.
If your just gonna dump them on grandma and let them fuck up my yard while your shooting crank please dont have them.
Also dont use them as slave labor. Let them be kids and if you want coffee every 3 minutes go get it.
OOOps nevermind that I flashed back to my youth. My goal is to make my kids a little better than I was.
Then accept the fact that I have no real control beyond doing my job as a parent.

Big responsibility but I love the little fuckers!!!

 

[kizphilly]

i have i daughter i never seen in process of taking that bitch to court its fucked up my fault for fucking wit a crazy bitch lesson learned

 

[Kaendar]

Thanks for the responses guys.

Another question, we all smoke and probably most of us here grow weed. So do you still smoke and grow weed where your children live? Or does that stop when you have children?

If you still grow and smoke, do you hide it or do you show them and tell them about it?

First of all, how old are you? And are you sure about your girl? If you have a baby with her you will have to deal with her for life. And I still smoke and grow at my house. If my kid asks me about it, ill tell him not to do it when hes young, but once hes an adult he can make an informed decision about it on his own. Im sure by that time it will be 100% legal tho.