Kaendar......you believe that gay people should not get married, correct? Well, what about all the people who believe it is wrong to smoke marijuana. What about all of those people who believe it is a gateway drug, what about the federal law that still says it is illegal to grow/possess/smoke marijuana and has it classified as a schedule 1 drug? The people who made marijuana illegal BELIEVED that is was WRONG to smoke marijuana. So are they right? is the Federal Government right to keep it listed as a schedule 1 drug? Is the Federal Government right in keeping marijuana illegal? So, by going off of what you have said that gay marriage is wrong because YOU, and many others, believe that it is WRONG, doesn't mean that it's wrong.
Do you believe marriage is between a man and a woman because the government tells you that or because the bible tells you that? Remember "Separation between Church and State".... that would mean that marriage, which is controlled by the government, should not allow religious views on marriage to weigh in on the topic.
Am I gay? Nope, no where close, I love Vag too much. Am I married? Nope! What's the divorce rate up to now a days? That right there shows that marriage doesn't mean SHIT to people anymore. Even the religious people get divorced, and that goes again the Christian belief, so who are they to say Gay people shouldn't be allowed to get married.
Just because YOU don't like or agree with someone elses views, doesn't mean they can't do the same things you are allowed to do. Gay marriage isn't the stepping stone to marrying your cousin/mom/dad/sister/brother etc. or to marrying animals. That argument sounds alot like "Marijuana is the gateway drug to harder drugs" argument.
Gay marriage doesn't affect you one bit other than the fact that you don't like it. If if hurts anyone it's the two people involved, that is if they get divorced. It doesn't affect you, me, my neighbor, or anyone else for that matter. Gay marriage is totally different than incest and animal love. Gay marriage is two people, who are not related, professing their love to each other, not their parents or their pets.