I have been homeless short term, staying with friends and what not, but I haven't had to be homeless homeless yet...I hope I won't have to, but you never really know...my best friend is about to be like living under a bridge homeless if someone can't figure out something for the situation they are in...I have room for her and her alone at my house, but that leaves her boyfriend and dogs in the lurch...
And you know bad things happen and money gets behind, but often as long as you have a good standing places will give you a little leeway through a rough spot...
They were doing poorly before, but had people to help them, but then they decided all at once to move to texas...I don't know why...anyway it all went to shit, and they ended up with no jobs, and no food, and they were living with other people, and I can't stand the idea that someone close to my heart is hungry while I have food. So I sent my husband to go rescue her and her bf and their dogs from texas...which is 17 hours from where we are...so anyway he goes and gets them, and they come back up here and stay with the same person that was helping them out before...So they are living with this guy, and my friend gets 2 jobs, and then her Boyfriend gets one that is better than her 2, so she stops working part time 2 places and starts working full time at the one of the 2 that paid the most...anyway so they were doing awful, but then they were suddenly doing alright...but they started to count on that doing alright continuing..so they went and got a car loan, and then skipped a month on their rent to make the first car payment...They just didn't put the highest priority at the top of the list...so anyway they put off paying the rent to pay the car, and then they got jerked around with the place they were staying, that is a whole nother story, anyway, so they thought they would have to move from the place they are staying now, so they used the car money the next month to pay the people for the place they were going to move into, and then the following night their car got repossessed, so then her boyfriend lost his job, so now they just have her one job that only pays 8.00 an hour...and I am not sure what they do with that money...I know they buy food, because I take them to the grocery store, but after that I just don't know where the money goes, because they aren't paying anything at all to the landlord, and he keeps taking them to court to try and evict them, but he can't figure out how to fill out the paperwork, so he is just wasting money trying to get them out...their rentis only $200 a month, and everytime he takes them to court it costs him $150...So so far he has spent $300 just to get them out...and he will have to spend another $150 at least, and if he gets it wrong yet another time it will be the same again...and so on and so on...anyway... So they are facing eviction if their landlord will ever actually read the packet they give him at the courthouse, and they have nowhere to go, no plan, no car, no money, and the place they were going to move into, before their car got repossessed, those people got evicted from their place, because they didn't use the money that my friends gave them to pay the rent...So they lost their stuff...when they came back to the old house they thought they would be going back out to the new place the next day, so all they had was one back pack of their clothes. All their pots and pans, and well their everything is just gone now, because those people took what they wanted and gave my friends back part of their clothes... So they are now pretty much squatters...they can't even afford to turn the water back on at the place they are staying now...It is just so awful, but this girl has 5 dogs, that she refuses to get rid of, and I'm sorry, but it is hard enough to find a friend or family member that will house you alone, let alone you, your partner, and 5 dogs...
I almost feel like their case is hopeless, because as soon as they have money they stop worrying about the bills and then end up not paying them, and then the things they need to be able to keep paying bills is gone...and then what?